OK, this is somewhat of an offbeat question, and I assure that I am 100% man, but once in a while I like to get hugged and held for a while more than doing "the act". The problem is, I don't want to pay a provider $200 or $300 for this. Was wondering if there are any recommendations of women in the Portland Lingurie modeling places that would be willing to do this? You would think so, since last I checked hugging is legal (I don't even mind clothed), but the few women that I have visited so far at the modeling places look at me kinda strange when I ask.
If anybody has recommendations for any particular person or modeling place in Portland, please respond here or send me an e-mail [email protected].
PS Not that I'm picky, but my preference would be for a woman with tanned or olive colored skin.

Ahhh ... so nice to hear from our friends "down south!"

An excerpt from your last post: "Once in a while I like to get hugged and held for a while more than doing 'the act.'  The problem is, I don't want to pay a provider $200 or $300 for this."

To make sure that I understand your question, I believe you're saying that you're not willing to pay an ADDITIONAL fee to be hugged and held.  That's a more than reasonable request and this is a service that many of our great SPs in the NW are willing to offer.

Do a search under Portland and read a few reviews.  Determine whether the lady you're seeing offers a GFE (Girlfriend Experience) type of session, and in most cases you'll find that the holding and hugging are included in her fee.

To desire a GFE is not uncommon.  Many hobbyists appreciate a mutual, passionate exchange rather than a session that's purely commercial and mechanical.  I'm sure that you'll be able to find many "friends" here on TER who are willing to work with you.

gG

Hell, I would even be willing to pay $40 at one of the Portland modeling places just for a really nice, long hug (no sex).

Hi,
Yours is a somewhat different request, though for the life of me I don't know why it should be. Being held and snuggeled is something almost all human beings need and desire. Its not strange, its our nature. I imagine the trouble your experiencing has to do with the perception by providers that you would want more than what you are asking for. Also what you ask is considered by some providers as "personal", well at least more "personal" than many acts that providers engage in. To get what you desire I believe you will have to find an independent provider willing to provide "personal acts" ie. GFE, (Girl Friend Experience). Providers woking for an agency or modeling house must give the "house" a large part of the fee. Thus by asking for a reduced fee for what you want they are often placed in a position of not taking a higher paying call, and as the "house" gets the same fee they lose. To find an independent willing to do what you require and at the price you want you will have to develope a relationship maybe through email where she can believe what you are asking is what you want (it won't change suddenly mid-call) and that you are willing to make yourself available at non-busy time slots. Many providers, including myself, only schedule a limited number of select hobbiests with maybe 1 or 2 days a week for one or two new clients.
I wish I serviced the Portland area!
Big cyber-hug from Me!!!
Luv Jezzi

I know exactly where you're coming from. If you're just looking for affectionate contact from some beautiful women, you may want to try the Dolphin... a strip club on South McLaughlan.  $20 a couch dance, and they do keep their clothes on.  It isn't sex, but it is wonderfully post-rough-day-at-work therapy. I've been there a number of times and the club has some absolutely gorgeous girls, who will talk sweetly to you and caress you, if that's what you're looking for.  Another minor down side is that you're limited to arms on the couch... but still, I've enjoyed it.  I'm not sure if there are other clubs that offer couch dances, but I've been to a few, and haven't seen any others.

Hope that helps!

The whole issue really is that what a provider asks for her time is what she wants.  It is not a question of "what will I get" but a question of give and take.  I do not negotiate my rates, no matter what it is I do in my time with my friends, this is to maintain me and what I provide.
I believe that the best solution (my opinion) is to research and contact a few ladies.  Maybe see her at least the first time for her scheduled donation.  During this time, you both will get a feel for  eachother, maybe then you can veture into asking her to lessen what she wants.
Again, what a lady charges has nothig to do with what she does in that time, it is simply for the pleasure of her company.

Thats my take, hope it gives you an alternate veiw.

Desiree of Portland

Maybe you should try a topless club.  In may parts of the country the girls always start with a big hug and then ask if you want a table dance.  If it is not to busy, they will hang out and you can buy them a drink.  I think you are looking for intimacy, not sex.  That may be hard to find.