A.) Ask a provider if they offer BBBJ and/or CIM? I guess you can say these are particular "fetishes" of mine, but how can I be sure if a provider is willing to fulfill such requests without being disrespectful or just comming off as a jerk? Do providers usually take-on such requests? I'm aware there are health issues involved and all, but if one proves they are "clean"...will that usually do the trick? Oh and is BBBJ/CIM usually involved in a "PORN STAR EXPERIENCE?


B.)Ask if it is possible to bring along a digital camera and/or a video cam to a "date"? I'm sure most of the ladies wouldn't appreciate having pictures taken during a session but even if it's intended for personal use only? Would I have to sign some kind of waiver?


Ok, yes, I am a rookie to the "hobbyist" scene (hence the silly questions)...so any advice or answers to said silly questions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!!  

Readvice needed) Is it ever o.k to.....

Do your homework. Study her web page, post, and reviews (become a VIP member to see the details).  Become familiar with code words such as bird watching.  If you do these simple things most likely you will get the information you seek.  Don’t ever ask for this information in an E-mail or Phone conversation.  After several  meetings and she becomes comfortable with you may let her know in a session about your fetishes and see if she is willing to satisfy them.  However I doubt you find many ladies willing to have Pics taken during a session.  We were all once rookies

I like to know which "gentlemen" to delete and block quickly, easily, and without wasting my time in sending a reply to explain.