A little of what is on my site  

Frequently asked questions
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Do you require references ?

 
Unfortunately, I have read too many stories in respect to women approving men, that turned out to be men who needed to fulfill their quotas of getting enough people to appear in front of a magistrate

 
If you bypass the reference system, how do you know I am safe ?

 
I do request two things, prior to making your acquaintance ; an email , and a phone call to verify you and I are both real people.

The email is run through a program that allows me to know our introduction, gratification, and contentment will be safe, sane, and consensual

 

 
I am just supposed to trust you with my information that you were able to obtain from the email ?

Unless you wind up being someone that is violent, verbally abusive ( prior to meeting ), affiliated with people that may or may not understand our right not to incriminate ourselves, or decide to engage in monopolizing behavior, there is *no* reason for me to ever share any aspect of of our " relationship " with anyone, from emails to what may have been said or done in the presence of each other..

 

 
Why don't you show your face ?

Personally, should those people ,imho, that ought to be pursuing murderers , major heroin dealers etc, be in the mood to turn the lives upside down of adults that may be involved in consensual activity, I would *not* wish to end up being charged with something that could have moral turpitude attached. Also, *not* all people in every neighborhood, in every church, on every street etc , where I reside, would be o.k. with me posting on here.
 

In other words, no face pictures makes it more difficult for anyone to charge me with anything , and prevents less tolerant people from turning me into an outcast , or from getting a hair up their rear end.

 

Are you clean and sober ?

In all honesty, my consumption of alcoholic beverages is down to about two cocktails every other month.

Drugs, considered to be illegal, are *not* a part of my life  

 

Miscellaneous
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Shoe size : 8

Panty sz : extra small or small

36C

Pants sz , zero to two

Blouse sz, medium

 
Gifts, although not required, are are always welcome from

Apple, Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Leather Masters, Mr.S, Banana Republic, Express, Macys, Nordstroms, J crew, The limited, North Face, and Rei

Gift cards are also wonderful

 
Musical taste / interest
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Pavarotti
Barry White
Billie Holiday
Carrie underwood
Rascall Flatts
Huey Lewis & The News
Ratt
Tesla
Van Morrison
3 Doors Down
Led Zeppelin
Bruno Mars
Eric Clapton
Green Day
The Ramones
Shania Twain
Pat Benatar
Blink 182
Black Eyed Peas
Jefferson Airplane
Michael Bolton
Joe Satriani
Neil Diamond
Willie Nelson
Allman brothers
Hall & Oates
The Beach Boys
Abba
Genesis
Peter Frampton
The Cure
Arethra Franklin
Iron Maiden
Def Leppard
ZZ Top
The Who
Steve Miller band
Joan Baez
Metallica
Jethro Tull
BB King
Bessie Smith
Pearl Jam
Bon Jovi
Motley Crue
Seal
Dolly Parton
Pink Floyd
Beatles
Santana
Celtic Women
The Doobie Brothers
Barbara Streisand
Stevie Wonder
Aaron Neville
Lynyrd Skynyrd
Van Halen
Luther vandross
Natalie Merchant
Cher
Sting
Cheryl Cole
Jimi Hendrix
Kiss
Kenny Rogers
Dixie Chicks
Kenny Chesney
Louis Armstrong
Stevie Ray Vaughan
Charlie Parker
Ella Fitzgerald
Miles Davis
Wynton Marsalis
Pink
Super Chick
Joan Baez
The Police
Creedence Clear Water Revival
Fleetwood Mac
REM
Adele
Cheap Trick
Depeche Mode
Robert Plant
Inxs
John Mellencamp
Billy Idol
Evanescence
B-52's
Carly Simon
Whitesnake
Alicia Keys
sammy Hagar
Quiet Riot
Pet Shop Boys
Reba McEntire
Joan Jett

 

Culinary preferences :
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Chinese
Barbeque
Thai
Italian
Adventurous

 
Turn Offs:  
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Sadly, it is necessary to cover some of the things that can adversely affect my thinking and attitude :

People that write fake reviews to get free membership

Catty women / women that pretend to be men and write fake reviews, so they get more men coming to them, when there are plenty of men to go around

Judgmental people, that do not realize some people have not found their voices yet, and that do not understand the way the world works

Gossip

Backstabbing

 
Turn ons :
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People that can agree to disagree

Compassionate people that give people latitude to grow and learn

Civil discussions on various subjects, where everyone who wants to contribute can, and in which everyone has the opportunity to learn

 
Other aspects of my life :
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Have you ever been to a Broadway Play ?

Yes, I was fortunate to have been able to see Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, and Phantom of The Opera in San Francisco and Los Angeles

 

 
What Major league Baseball Games have you been able to attend ?

Sf Giants, Detroit Tigers, Oakland Athletics, San Diego Padres, New York Yankees

 
Have you ever been white water rafting

Yes, in Canada, on the Sacramento River, and a couple of other places

 
What other outdoor activities have you been involved with in your life ?

Skiing

Backpacking

Hiking

Rock climbing

Rollerblading

 

Have you ever been to any Hockey games ?

Yes, San Jose Sharks and Los Angeles King