are just that. My thoughts and personal stories about the hobby range from sharing experiences Ive had to telling a silly story about my dog stealing someones money clip....someone lately said I needed to keep a diary instead of posting my useless experiences. well here's how I see it....If you see one of my post and you know me by now just move forward please. the fact that that so many read them and respond mostly  via PMS and encourage me keeps me writing makes up for the few the try to be hurtful mostly aliases are the ones that are negative.I have been  a provider for five years posting here mostly in the last year or so....Posting is a way to have an insight into the personality of the poster a chance to get to know their sense of humor or lack of.....it gives  you a preview of  just who you might be meeting someday. Some naysayers will say it is all marketing all I can tell you is this, with or without posting I do just fine.The simple truth is I enjoy sharing, I get this from my mother who has keep a diary since she was 13yrs old and still writes everyday,why? because she enjoys it and I love reading her stories and experiences that made her who she is today.I wish more providers would come forward and share their stories with us we ladies have some of the BEST stories out there by far and I for one would love to read them...The Queen of useless posts as someone refered to me .....LOL Victoria hummm....Queen Victoria it does have a nice ring to it......