Are any of you ladies trying this? Are you buying points? Does it make a huge difference?

Buying points, as of now, no, but i remember that i used to and it wasn't really working for me for reasons that are no longer present.  Now  that i'm there again, so are my male friends, and it will probably be serving the same purpose that TER is now. Please keep in mind that i am Mixed African American lady who has a broad area of expertise, including fetishes. I think it might make a difference there, or at least it used to, because i knew girls in my same area who Caucasian and were offering more vanilla services and charging more, who were doing quite great. I believe you will do fantastic there, but i think we have to keep in mind that that was then, and this is now.  Their demand for fetish interest might rise evening the playing field a little bit (i hope).

Thanks HAM for the response. I still don't know whether I should buy points or not. Between TER, P411 and Eros, that is going to be a lot of moola... Maybe I will try it for a month just to see how that goes...

HAM? I didn't see that coming lol. Next time i should think about my abbreviations before i name change but hey, night make a mouth water or two I've never had the guts to dish out the Eros money, and P411 used to be ALOT cheaper. I think a month is fair, i think ill see you there!

Two simple, free things all ladies w/ P411 accounts can do to increase exposure:

LE is on there, too so just be careful and use common sense.  

I don't spend any money on p411, there are many ways to earn points other than spending. $
-offer members only discount
-put link of their site on your site contact page  
-give okays
Gina has clearly laid out the process to earn the points
I earned about 150 points easily through that alone. That said I have been considering paying for VIP/featured spot on p411 but have not jumped in yet.
Also if you post ads in your "home area" or whatever it's called, you don't need points. Visiting ads vary.

Good info, glad I asked!!!

I can  vouch for P411, I have used this P411 site for years and absolutely love it. I agree it has much value & is easy to use & worth it with quality clients.  
 There are many sites out there right now who are probably getting called by new members. I enjoy many of them & find many of them beneficial. Erosguide, Slixa, TER.
Just try them and see how they may work for you. Of course just screen & be cautious.  
P411 is worth trying. I find value in being on there & quality clients.
Best of luck to you.
 Happy to be here TER. :-

But I don't pay for upgrades.  I've done that, and the upgrades never garnered me more clients (I'm based in Chicago, BTW).  I do pay for travel ads however, and I find that to be worth it.