You're right.  Northeast ladies offer DFK, BBBJ, etc. as their standard approach.  It's commonly expected and every lady I've enjoyed while traveling there includes it in the experience.

For some (unknown to me) reason, the same performance is not standard in the Bay Area.  More often than not, West Coast ladies seem to limit the experience and many do not offer DFK and BB oral.  I have no idea why.

You're right that service "standards" do vary from region to region, as do clientele expectations, but there are lots of West Coast providers who offer or allow what you mention above.

I think your experience is attributed to you either:

a)  choosing cautious providers

b)  not "clicking" with her to allow her to "open up" to you

If you're the type of guy who wants to jump head first into the action, unless you're with a lady who is open to that you will need to slow down a bit and find out how to get her to "warm up" and then you might get farther than you currently are.

I don't necessarily seek out the things you list but I've encountered them many times and with local, Bay Area providers.

Peace...

I spent a few years recently flying back and forth from the east coast (home base) and west coast for a biz situation. It was in the Bay area that my Poon-ing activity transpired.

You are on target with your observations.

It takes a long time to sort thru the possibilities of all the beautiful woman on the west coast to find a true GFE. It can also be an expensive search if that is a minimal characteristic for the session to be rewarding. At least that has been my experience.

I got so frustrated ,at one point, that I flew gals in to spend weekends with me from back east & also from Seattle where lot's of great GFE at lower price points play. Airfare was cheap & I knew I was going to find my reqmts being provided during my time spent with a lovely lady. Don't get me wrong the ladies are beautiful in the Bay area but as a generalization... they have many many rules and the experience (in my limited world) did not have that POP that I was use too. I just was not getting value received at the $$$ ,$$$$ & $$$$$ per hour and up price point for the services being offered.

I did eventually find a couple of gals ( who have since moved on or retired) that offered a GFE in the bay area & would see them regularly.FWIW, Madison is a lovely gal & is still in the bay area and she can be found on the eros site under brunettes. Her email is [email protected]. Mid thirties and a true GFE but her price point is $$$$.I aslo highly recommend (in the Bay area) Trinity White. She can also be found on Eros just do a search on her name on the site.I always make sure to get on her dance card when I am in town for biz.

I don't know why this is (Non -GFE & rules) .... but  my experience  has been that sessions that were limited , a bit mechanical and if i asked for a true GFE.. I was lectured or the gal seemed to be offended at my request.

I must say though .. the ladies are beautiful in the bay area & you either adapt to the situation at hand or you find alternatives as I did.

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