I saw this guy the other day and made my boundaries clear to him over email.  I even said "sometimes I like _______ and sometimes I don't.  Are you okay with that?"  He replied "yes that's great etc."  Then he came to see me.  He was very sarcastic and I felt I could say nothing right, very hard to connect to for me.  Then the "fun" started.  Well he got on top of me and basically "forced" me to do this thing for ~20 minutes that he had agreed to being ymmv in the email.  I felt I had to say "this is too much of this to me" because he was on top of me and he was a big guy.  Then he wanted to do these other things and a few of them were beyond my preferences and actually were feeling painful and I had to say "I don't enjoy that."  It was awkward.  Then he wrote a review here putting me down and of course not including the email exchange we had where he said he was just dandy with a ymmv thing.  If something hurts or is painful is it my job to lay there and endure something painful or uncomfortable?  I mean would he be willing to do that?  Shouldn't this be about enjoyment for both parties.  I'm sad about it today.

That is not cool. I wish you had terminated the session.  
His information should be send to the ladies for everyone's safety.  
That is so upsetting.  

Dillan -

I want to warn others about him, where can I do that?

I have no idea if it is permitted on this site (many others do) so if it is why not just out his handle right here as a first step.

His handle is decanter01

Thank you Dillan.  

Thanks deary.  I just want to make it clear he didn't assault me.  He pushed my boundaries and when I wouldn't do what he wanted I think he tried to hurt my business.  If every client was as pushy and unpleasant you can bet I'd be out of this business.  I love to be a genuine open hearted and present woman to clients and I'm glad there are guys who actually want that and don't want someone who just pretends that things feel good when they don't. Why would you want to do something to a provider that she didn't enjoy?  Wouldn't you want her to genuinely enjoy it?  This is making me think about how i should approach this business and what I offer in the future so that's a good thing...

It makes me sad too, as hobbyist I don't understand who gave this guy references. IMHO Two consenting adult = menu, ymmv and boundaries must be respected, the sarcasm should have been a red flag and forceful act is a termination of a date. Bye see yah

Perhaps it might be best to only offer certain things to your established client base.  

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Thanks deary.  I just want to make it clear he didn't assault me.  He pushed my boundaries and when I wouldn't do what he wanted I think he tried to hurt my business.  If every client was as pushy and unpleasant you can bet I'd be out of this business.  I love to be a genuine open hearted and present woman to clients and I'm glad there are guys who actually want that and don't want someone who just pretends that things feel good when they don't. Why would you want to do something to a provider that she didn't enjoy?  Wouldn't you want her to genuinely enjoy it?  This is making me think about how i should approach this business and what I offer in the future so that's a good thing...

If this guy is registered in P411 and uses P411 to Request Appointments, he has an existing and current profile records that can be copied, recorded and can be used as precautionary and warning information or even track and share among the ladies to watch up for, doesn't matter if he's from out of this country.

No one should be expected to do anything they aren't comfortable with. He was wrong to push your boundaries and you should have ended the session immediately if he continued to do so after you warned him, if you felt you could do it safely.
 It sounds like you are a very loved person from the responses to this thread and the one positive thing I would like to add is that it is not a terrible review and you shouldn't worry about it hurting your business. If a few more guys write you good reviews anything negative in it will mean less.  
 If you keep doing what you love and keep your level of service high, life will be good and this too shall soon pass.

Sorry you had to go through this. Sounds like a bad guy who needs to be blacklisted.

Why would you discuss 'do's and don'ts' for the record? Arent you concerned with it being held against you?