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What has hobbying done for your sexuality?
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Has it increased your sex drive or caused it to decrease?

Are you more in touch with your sexuality now that you've been able to possibly explore it more?  Or do you hobby simply for the physical gratification and anything outside of that doesn't really apply to you?

Personally, I know my views on sex and sexuality have changed a LOT since I first go into this.  After getting over the psychological part (dealing with the stigma, etc), I spent a fair amount of time "playing the field" and spending time with just about any hot looking woman I would see online on a listing site.

About 3 years ago, I started changing in terms of my interests.  I was no longer interested in the "hot body" as much as the "quality experience".  I was never really picky about the ladies I would see but I started becoming less interested in the extraordinarily beautiful ladies and more interested in the "beautiful being" ladies, regardless of their looks.  I've been fortunate in that I've been able to have some AWESOME experiences with some "beautiful being" ladies who were also beautiful on the outside as well.  :)

With regard to my sexuality, I'm much more comfortable with it these days and I'm a LOT more open about some of my "secrets", like some fetishes, etc.  :)

I don't know why I'm telling you all this but I guess I was just interested in getting some feedback from y'alls... find out where your heads are at.  :)

Peace...

It has definitely increased mine plsus made me more confident, although my funds are lower than they could be!!  A trade-off like everything in life I guess!

In what ways has your confidence increased?

Peace...

jackvance8394 reads

stereotype others when they get to know them as individuals.

And boy, are there ever a lot of stereotypes about providers!

Do you mean open minded about seeing providers or about sex in general?  Are you more open to fetishes than previously?

Peace...

Sounds good to me.  :D

Do you ever get frustrated if you get really turned on by a client who just can't keep up with you?  How do you, and other ladies out there, deal with guys who sometimes just run out of steam or finish quickly if you're wanting a longer duration experience (stamina)?

Peace...

If someone can't keep up, I don't mind as long as everything doesn't come to an end. After all there's foreplay, and postplay.

Although being in the biz hasn't increased my sex drive, since it's always been in full throttle, it has made me a better lover.
Kisses to all ~CarleeofArizona

Foreplay and postplay... I really love to play!  :)

How have you become a better lover?  Are you able to "read" any given partner easier/faster/better than in the past?  Are you more open minded about various things, like fetishes?

Peace...

CarleeofArizona8318 reads

Yes, I have become a better lover.

I believe I can read a partner easier and faster than prior to providing.

I am as open minded as my partner is. Although in all honesty if it were our first meeting and I was being told tons of fetishes it might turn me off. ~Carlee

Ok, I'll be sure to keep the talk about what I like to do with sliced ham and cheese to myself when we first meet.  :D

Peace...

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