San Francisco
During those most intimate moments, do you like for your partner to be vocal or do you prefer them to be quiet? Do you like soft moans and groans or do you like loud screams and yells?
I loved the loud yells from a woman I used to spend time with on occasion and a few times, she yelled so loud that after our encounter, my ear would be ringing a bit. 
During the yelling, I thought it was totally hot and I actually got more aroused.
Do you prefer dirty talk to moans, groans, screams/yells or do you like some mixture?
Also, for the ladies: do you like it when a guy talks dirty? For the longest time, I wouldn't talk dirty with my partner at all and only within the last 3-4 years have I started "opening up" in that regard. My problem is finding the right balance of things to say so I won't offend her but will hopefully stimulate or arouse her.
Lastly, what are some of the WORST things you've heard expressed vocally while engaging in intimate play? I remember I was with a no retired provider many years ago and we were about to switch to doggy style when she said something that changed the situation completely. She just got on her hands and knees and she looked over her shoulder and said, "Ok, rock my world". Before entering her, I stopped and just started laughing! Then she started laughing. It was the _way_ she said what she said. It was totally sarcastic and fake and I just lost it. I managed to finish the session but at that point, the "intimacy" was pretty much gone and I was going through the motions.
Peace...
Squirting is something else that REALLY turns me on.
I once had a provider push me off of when she was cumming and she sprayed me, the walls, the mattress, and everything else within range. After the spray stopped, she told me to get back in her and keep going.
Peace...
That reminds me of a now deceased provider who worked herself to one of the most intense orgasms I have ever witnessed. Full body convulsions and a crazed look on her face. In fact, while she was "riding the wave", she started laughing (in between grunts) at the look on my face as I watched her.
Peace...
Ah yes, feedback. Sometimes, I feel guilty because I can take a "long time" to finish and most of the time I don't. "feedback" comes into play because I can sense when she's getting to the point of wanting to wrap things up because the nature of her "feedback" changes. She might appear to be more enthused, more aroused, or more [fill in the blank], and most of that is in the interest of getting me to finish.
Other times, I feel guilty because a provider will give me feedback she thinks I want to hear and I make the mistake of thinking she's being honest or genuine or sincere with her "commands" to do it harder or whatever and at the end of the session, I don't get the sense that the sweat I worked up was for her "benefit" but for mine.
I dunno, while I love hearing the moans and groans and the dirty talk, I prefer to NOT hear it if it's not sincere. I would prefer her to be quiet or something else (not sure what since I haven't given it much thought).
One thing I *DO* know is I'm much more aroused by a woman who talks about getting fucked or wanting to get fucked than by one who talks about 'making love'.
Peace...