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Conversations during a session: how do you feel about it?
MysteryAdmin 98 Reviews 3596 reads
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This morning, I read a review which described something I've personally experienced and I wanted to see what others thought or felt about it.

When I'm with a woman, provider or not, I enjoy talking with her and discussing whatever topics come up.  When I'm "ready" for intimacy, I do enjoy talking but not necessarily as much as when I'm in a non-intimate setting.

I know some guys just want the lady to be quiet or talk very little, unless it's "erotic discourse", and spend the bulk of the session time engaging in some form of 'play'.

I know others like to chat with the lady to get to know her a bit before the fun begins.  Everyone once in a while, I meet a lady who enjoys talking (or maybe she JUST talks) to the point of "widdling" (sp?) the session time away.  On one occasion, we spent the entire session time talking about her mother who had recently passed away.  On another occasion, we talked so much about half the session time was gone.

So, to the fellas:  how do you feel about conversation during a session?  Do you like it?  Hate it?  Do you prefer it happen after the "fun" or does it matter to you at all?  Do you feel "excessive" talking/discussion should not be counted against the session time?

To the ladies: how do you feel if the guy cuts the conversation short to focus the session on the "fun stuff"?  Do you take offense to this?  Do you think it's fair to engage in prolonged discussion knowing the clock is ticking?   Do you consider it a "rip-off" if conversation is used as a method or mechanism for avoiding or minimizing the intimate part of the session or am I being paranoid?  :)

Peace...

hungry19514233 reads

I prefer dinner dates. Yes, I do enjoy getting to know the lady I'm with, and conversation over dinner is just the ticket. I've had dates where the playtime was prior to dinner, some were after dinner, and some were both. It's also been my experience that almost all dinner dates extend well beyond the alloted time stated on ladies' websites. If there is good conversation and you are enjoying each other's company, time has rarely been a factor. Since she is probably not going to have another date after you, she will probably enjoy just having some good company for the evening.

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LaylaDs3005 reads

playfully transform a good and casual conversation into hot and steamy intimacy...

Example:

[Over a glass of wine gazing out the hotel windows into a gorgeous view of the SF Bay.]

She: So how do you like San Francisco?
He:  It's great, did a bit of site-seeing,

[He moves closer to her as she places her glass down]

shopping, and all before my business dinner. This hotel is

[She places her hand on his leg, and playfully graces it with her perfectly manicured nails]

in a great location.

She: Ohhh, yessssss, you are right in the center of all the action.

[She slides her hands up his leg and continues to feel his hard swelling manhood. She begins to unbutton her blouse with her other hand.]

He:  And this part of the city has great views of San Francisco and the Bay Bridge.

[He places his hands on her supple full breasts that now display erect nipples]

She: Have you been to Twin Peaks?

[They begin to indulge in an intimate passionate kiss, that leads to the bed in the process of ripping one another's clothes off and they both forget about the conversation completely, and continue a heated moment of passion that lasts until they are both sweating and panting from the excitement...]

Just a vision =)

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hungry19513682 reads

I think I need to go take a shower now!!!!!

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MysteryAdmin2952 reads

Wow, I'm sold!  :D

What happens next???? ;)  LOL

Peace...

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DC.3684 reads

This conclusion has been reached by way of very painful paths paved with misunderstanding and usually ending with my self-preservation based acknowledgment that she was right all along, and yes, I am an idiot.

:-)

Having said that, I absolutely love talking with women during a session.  Our conversation is sometimes my second best memory of the session; and, sadly, sometimes the best.

I am usually still good for two pops depending on the alignment of the stars and such, so I will do my best to try to have most of the conversation between pops.  At the beginning of a session, it's very difficult for me to actually concentrate on what she is saying when I am that close to her, drinking in her scent, being lulled in by the musical cadence of her voice, getting closer, closer, reaching up.. Well, you know - hard to talk.

During recovery, though, I just love hearing about whatever they want to tell me.  We'll usually talk about almost everything until it's time to start again.

Then there are the sessions where the lady and I are mutually just interested in straight up acting like animals in heat.  Those are good too. :-)  

Great post, thanks

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MysteryAdmin3937 reads

Ok, then what kinds of things do you like to talk about during the session?  Iran getting "noocalur" weapons or that last great book both of you read?  :)

Peace...

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DC.3156 reads

how we got into it.  Those providers, I believe, are trying to keep the boundaries set in stone and don't want to veer from the hobby related conversations.  Other providers, though, realize right away that they don't have to worry about boundaries with me (I've built walls that the Horn of Jericho couldn't touch) and open up a little about like and their interests.  Nothing too personally identifying, but a glimpse into themselves (or at least the self that they want me to glimpse).

If it is a visiting lady, most of the conversation is about the sights in Boston. LOL  I've become a tour guide at times.

I once had a fantastic provider carry on a whole conversation with me while giving me a BBBJ.  Bob and talk, bob and talk, sometimes in between words rather than sentences.  It was surprisingly erotic.  Couldn't tell you a word she said, but I liked it.

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channelguy2217 reads

extremely up to date on politics and the world in general.  We talk during out entire encounter.  We'll go from "oohs and aahhs" to "Yeah, that movie did suck!"      I talk a lot so we get along fine.    To me when it's quiet I find that non-stimulating.    She can also talk dirty with the best.   Her favorite thing to say when I get there is "you want me to blow you or me to sit on your face?" !!

Got to like that, eh?!!

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LaylaDs3550 reads

Sorry to venture off track, back on topic:  

I think everyone is different and so has their own likes and dislikes, what they want to talk about or rather not talk about during a session... but for the most part, I think we can all keep the conversations relative and entertaining without stepping over boundaries.  

Some politicians would rather talk baseball than politics and an athlete might like to talk politics rather than baseball, and on the other hand neither want to talk about evolutionism versus creationism, and more over, no one wants to hear about the stock market.

Kisses to All...Layla

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