So, have you been added to the TER whitelist?  If so, did you ask the provider to add you or did she do it on her own?

Peace...

Not on there as I haven't nailed (so to speak) down a regular who is also a TER regular.  If anyone, I'd ask NatashaNZ, but she's rather beyond my budget these days and the distance is an issue since the move to Marin.  (Love to spend a couple of hours squirming around between her and Laura De Leon!)

I had to ask a few times.

I've only asked a couple of ladies if they wouldn't mind. They happily did it.

When I was still able to through the girl's accounts. I wouldn't do it unless asked because (1) I usually didn't know their TER handles, (2) didn't know if that was their primary handle, (3) I wouldn't do it unless asked because for whatever reason in the world, they might not want to be connected to anyone/anything as any more than just a casual browser of the site.

Good points.  I was aware of the whitelist feature of the site but I didn't find out I had actually been whitelisted until I provider I had seen told me.  I was pleasantly surprised, but surprised nonetheless.  

Thanks for the feedback everyone!  

Peace...