at least for me to explain.  But I'll try.

1)  Please be, in person, truly representative of your photos
2)  Providers ask for us to be on time, clean and friendly, etc.   Please do the same or tell us you have to cancel.  We understand things happen.
3)  If your profile is wrong on TER...please correct it!  I look for certain activities and if they don't happen (assuming the right chemistry, etc.) consider me some mixture of unhappy, paranoid and despondent!
4)  Don't look at the clock
5)  Don't answer the phone or email while I'm there.  When I'm with you I want you to be with me..100%.
6)  Help me, help you have the best time we both can.  I sure as hell know I'm not Don Juan reincarnated!
7)  If things are not "working" exactly right - be innovative and protect my very fragile male ego
8)  don't fake anything.  If bells aren't ringing and ecstasy isn't overcoming you...just be nice and say it feels good or something.  Don't do the fake thing....yuck.
9)  For me....it's important to talk to me.  I'm not looking for any information you don't want to tell me, but I do like to know "things"...where do you like to go on vacation, what's your fav wine, etc.  Quiet, to me at least = you're bored.  Double yuckie.

Looks like I can't do 10....unless...OK,

10)  write me a letter, an email, maybe pay for a billboard that says I am the best lover ever!

You asked....there you are

A great attitude - friendly, sexy, open, kind, happy, personable - however, you want to describe it.  The ladies attitude trumps just about everything else.

Be real - look as good or better than your pictures. If you have a great creative and deceptive photographer - fire him. Glamor shots are for your myspace page.

Be well rested - I hate having to wake you up to ask you to change positions.

Give me input as to what feels good. I don't have one of those, I just rent one now and then.

Smile, laugh - and make me laugh. I love FUN sex. Laughing and cumming at the same time is the best. Oh, except when we're playing with S/M. that should be serious. Or not.