I am visiting this week from Chicago and would love to meet a hot and submissive provider to spend some time with. For providers who are reading this I would ask you to read my recent review of Milena to see if you are interested in seeing me. Thanks in advance for any and all help.

SGS

I do not do the submissive thing , and most women on here I imagine would not. Plus you are asking an explicit question, which most women will refrain from answering. You might ty looking for women with explicit ads.

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Seemed like a normal ISO post.

Ladies advertise that they are submissive or dominant all the time, on the boards, in their ads, and on their websites. It's not in the least bit "explicit". It's a frame of mind, and a personality trait, nothing more.

I am not here to get myself wrapped up into drama or to " cause drama " . Just stating an observation. No one until me had bothered to reply to his post. My guess is because women 1) are not interested in being submissive / getting flogged, whipped, tied up etc , and 2) that women tend to think of that as being explicit due to the implications. Just my two cents.

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Pucksbitch

The implication of whipping, flogging, being tied up, and being * used sexually * is very strong when the word submissive is used.

Again, I am not here to get into drama. Just adding my two cents here

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1)"flogged...whipped and tied up?" I guess we are all free to our own definitions of submissive.....but you have missed the boat...submission lives between the ears....obviously not your thing....and thats OK....but maybe we should be a bit less judgmental.

2)contrary to your statement....I have received several responses to my post....there are many more subs out there than you make think.....anyway.....happy hunting to all!!! Life is good!!

have absolutely nothing to do with being a submissive partner. That is called S&M, and I agree with you. It doesn't interest me in the least. Being submissive, whether it's the man or the woman can be a very erotic experience for both partners. There can be slight bondage involved, but only to the point of pushing yourself to your own limitations.

I HAVE MET MEN LIKE YOU. And, I have heard submission is between the ears. Doms and masters are a dime a dozen imho, and there is no such thing as a wannabe or someone pretending to be a dom or master. All of the people who call themselves doms and masters are just taking advantage of women , and essentially brainwashing them. Not to mention, every dom and master I have met cannot distinguish between play and doing the dom or master thing 24/7 , even if the dom or master states they just want to play. Most submissives come from abusive relationships, and all she will think she is good for for the rest of her life is to serve men. She will never be able to deal with life on her own terms without having the submissive thing playing through her mind like a movie reel. She will never form her own identity , and truly not know her own likes, dislikes etc or even how SHE feels. Just my two cents  

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You may want to talk with this lady -
http://www.kissablecuties.com/SweetBaby.html

Geez - lighten up!!!  We're starting to get the feeling you should pursue another line of work!

I ENJOY meeting WELL MANNERED, courteous, respectful men that want to play safe. That being said, I also ~~~~ LIKE men ~~~~ that do ** NOT ** threaten women with bad reviews if the women does NOT want to, ahem, risk her health. Furthermore, I ** ENJOY ** the company of men that do NOT get drunk every night, that are NOT alcoholics, and that do NOT stalk women. Oh, and I ** ENJOY ** ~~~~ the company of men ~~~~ that do ** NOT ** ask explicit questions , and once again, threaten to write bad reviews if a woman refuses to answer them.
If you do not click with a woman because she will NOT answer explicit questions, or because she will NOT risk her health, there are PLENTY of women who will be willing to do either or both.
Why get involved in being petty and malicious / drama when there are plenty of women ?!