LOVE ALL - SERVE ALL is the Hard Rock Cafe slogan and I think most of us do our best to follow it in our public lives. But in our most intimate private lives we have preferences and that's OK. After all, attraction is an emotion, not a decision, and we have a right to our emotions.
Many ladies list age and ethnicity restrictions on their pages. In Canada you often see "No Indians" and here in the US "I prefer to not see African Americans" is pretty common. And many, many pages contain some variation on "Men over 35 preferred."
Of course, it's not just the ladies. Ethnicity is listed under appearance right between Build and Age here on TER escort profiles. And it's there because people care the same way they care about height, bust size, eye color and everything else.
So... ladies and gentlemen, what do you really care about and, if you can say, why?
I'll start: I strongly prefer dates aged twenties to mid forties. This is old enough so they are likely to be stable and share some cultural interests with me (we would have some shot of knowing the same music, for example) but young enough for soft skin and firm lines. I also generally prefer lighter to darker skin, but would trade skin color for good, intelligent use of language any day.
Anyone else... what do you like and why