San Francisco
I try to be fair in the amount of questions I ask people. 
When it comes to the providers you prefer to see, do you prefer to see local ladies or visiting ladies? We all have our ATFs and some are local and some are visitors who visit the Bay Area with some frequency.
Given the fact there is always a few ladies visiting the Bay Area, do you focus more on seeing the ladies who visit or do you tend to support the "home team" more?
As for myself, it's really a mixture of both. There are some local ladies I LOVE to spend time with and there are some ladies who visit I LOVE to spend time with just as much as the local ladies. What makes it difficult sometimes is when a lady I like is visiting and I want to see a local lady and I must choose between the two since I can only see one of them. I hate having to make decisions like that.
Peace...
So what do you do when a lady you really like is visiting right when you've got a hankerin' to see one of your local ATFs?
I sometimes try to see the visiting lady with the idea being the local will "always be there" after the visiting lady leaves. Not necessarily the best plan, I'll be the first to admit.
Peace...
Yeah, I hear ya there. I'm the same way. Once I decide to see someone I stick with that appt.
Peace...
Don't get me wrong... I'm always open to feedback from everyone.
It's with the more provider-targetted questions I've been asking I decided to ask the fellas one.
Your questions above are great and I often go through a similar process. Rates of the local vs the visiting lady also come into play as sometimes I won't have the funds to see the visiting lady but can afford the local lady.
If the visiting lady doesn't visit with much frequency at all, I'll try to give priority to seeing her. Again, rates get involved.
Traveling to the visitor's city is something I've never factored into my decision making process. I've thought about making trips to the visitor's city to see them if they wouldn't be coming to my area soon enough but never considered that when deciding to see her while she's in my area. Great question....
The scheduling issue is another one that often comes up. My luck is such that the local lady will be offering specials or something during the same timeframe the visiting lady will be in town. Do you think a coin-flipping approach might be suitable here?
Something else that I also consider are ladies visiting my area for the FIRST time that I haven't met yet whom I'm interested in meeting. Like when you're visiting the Bay Area. Depending on what your rates will be when out here (will they be any different than what's posted on your website?) I might want to change my plan of seeing a local I haven't seen in a bit to see you instead since I won't know how this trip will go for you which *can* impact your interest in returning in the future.
Decisions, decisions, decisions....
Peace...
Well, we'll just have to see how things go. I'm not a negotiator or anything. I'm simple, I can either afford the rate or not. If not, then I just envy those who can and enjoy the wonderful stories of experiences with you posted here.
If I can afford the rate, watch out... 
Peace...