I am consistently perplexed by the rip-off reviews that are stacked one on top of another for the same rip-off provider by gentlemen who are clearly aware of TER and have these rip-off preventing resources easily at thier disposal.

There are so many wonderful providers who offer great service and deserve our attention and our green pieces of paper. I would love to see these rip-off providers run out of business, but these guys follow through with the session, giving up the cash, even after they realize that the provider is pulling a bait & switch, is just in it for the money, has been less than friendly on the phone or has shown some other blantant evidence that they are about to take the gentlman for a ride, and not in a good way. Then they write a review and in reading, you realize it's a rip-off, yet the ratings still reflect 3's, 4's and 5's despite the fact that the guy is kicking himself for being ripped.

Avoiding the rip-off is so easy with TER watching our backs. Even without the benefit of TER, us guys should stop listening to our cocks for a few moments, have a little intuition and grow the balls to walk away.

Here's how I approach it, to avoid getting burned.

1) I don't do outcall, so I never have to worry about the no-show since I haven't wasted any time or money on setting up a location. I don't bother feeling burned if she doesn't show. It's her loss and things happen. She may have a good reason. But I usually don't try and reschedule since there are so many other great women to see.
2) If she opens the door and she's not the girl in the pic or the pics are inaccurate, I walk away. I don't feel burned, because she just wasted an appointment and didn't get my money. She burned herself and and I only have one less out of the hundreds available to meat.
3) I spend a few minutes on the phone with a provider when making the appointment. I try to get a sense of her before the meeting in exactly the same way the providers are screening me without asking any invasive or compromising questions. If there's even a hint that we aren't going to hit it off, I don't make the appointment.
4) Most importantly, I do my homework on TER. I don’t accept the first review of girl by a first time reviewer. I look at track record, not just the most recent take by a gentleman. I use a grain of salt to divide between the lines of a review. I know that excellent service makes a girl more attractive and a totally hot babe gets better service reviews without earning them. Most reviews are written closely to a gentleman’s orgasm, so a point or two can be shaved simply for that fact.  I make personal contact with the gentlemen who's reviews I'm relying on and get a first hand feel for whether I'm the kind of guy she's going to like, and whether I'll like her. At this stage the gentleman is more sober and lucid.
5) I suspend my expectations, and I live in the fantasy. Even though I've done all the research and I pretty much know what to expect, I approach the appointment as if I knew nothing. If a review has said that she kisses with tongue, I don't expect that she'll be kissing me in that way. I let her take the lead at first and let her draw her own lines. I know that a sure way to make certain she doesn't kiss me is to try and stick my tongue down her throat. Expectations can rule themselves out. I never think about the money nor try to measure the experience by that value (this is what I mean by living in the fantasy). Like a person on vacation who spends the whole trip thinking about how expensive everything is, they will never be able to enjoy it. But spend the money and simply let the experience take you, and you'll have a great time. The money is gone, no sense pining for it.

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