...for a promise of a couple of nights/days you can cast your net a little further, Las Vegas, LA & San Diego all have direct flights into the Monterey Airport.  And still closer to home many ladies from SF will travel for multiple nights... but...but, promote it as a Monterey/Carmel trip...not a Monterey/Seaside.  For the most part, ladies  are usually traveling on mini vacations when they come to town to work/play.

VEry sparse indeed!