Excellent site and trust page but no references anywhere. Wanted your thoughts on whether I should take the plunge.

I know I'm a provider but I've been this sweetheart of a woman at one of the gatherings i threw in Sunnyvale this year.  We also share the same regulars. Not only is she a bubbly sweet and fun young lady , she's a really good soul and I totally vouch her!!!

Good enough for me!!!  She's on my radar as well, so this means a lot!  

She ghosted me

I booked Heather in advance (a few weeks). She accepted my large-ish deposit and then ghosted me. I confirmed with a text the day before and never heard back. Same the next day. She never responded to my emails either. I hope she is not a scammer, but beware.

Your post pretty much describes the definition of a scammer.

Since she’s not on TER, I submitted a review. We’ll see if the moderators allow it. I don’t know if someone may have stolen her profile and setup the scam website and the ads on Tryst and PD. I’ve flagged both profiles as scams.

Terrible. Did not show up . Rescheduled claiming she was ill and did not show up again.

So TER didn’t approve my report. Maybe you should also submit one and maybe with two scammer reports, they might approve it?

TER didn’t approve my report. Either because I didn’t have enough reviews or Heather didn’t.

This is why you never do deposits.  I refuse, no matter how good the reviews or well established.  Once the money is out of your pocket and in hers, you are at her mercy...

She did finally get back to me and apologized for what happened. She said she let some personal situations get in the way of her professional life. I appreciated the closure. I didn’t ask for the deposit back. I know some people will lambast me for letting her keep it. I prefer not to hold grudges. Life can get in the way.