My wife has "worked" with providers on a one on one basis as well as 3 somes that include me. She would love to find more providers that liked to work with women. Many will do it for the $ but finding one she feels really enjoys it is rare!

I wasn't really sure how much of the package she wanted.  I didn't want to do anything that would make her uncomfortable, so the experience was more R-rated than X-rated.  That's what I meant about later wishing I had done more--at the time, erring on the side of caution seemed more appropriate.  I did tell her, though, that she could have a supplemental session at no charge anytime

Well, depends on what you would like it to entail socialgirl. First, after finding a suitbale provider (after looking at her reviews on ter). Be upfront with her, let her know what you would like to happen. If you want restrictions on your husband, let her know. All providers will respect your wishes first and foremost. Most of the girls we have seen either ask my wife right out of the gate if there are limitations with me. The only rule my wife has is no kissing. If you have never done this I suggest starting slow, limit your husband the first time to maybe some touching etc. See how it feels the next day. Anything else can be explosive when the inititial curiosity wears off and the emotions hit. If you are in the SF/SAC area email me @ TER or [email protected] and I will recommend a few nice girls we have worked with that will give you less grief. Also finding a girl that truely enjoys you is VERY important. Otherwise she gives him all the attention in an effort to get out as quickly as possible and ruins everything. I am also glad to answer any other questions you may have via email.