I was wondering if any other guys have had a similar problem as I.  I have met two different providers and we hit it off very well.  With the first provider, I asked about a cute friend of hers that is also in the industry.  I asked if she could introduce me to her and she said that she would.  However, it never happened until I suggested that we do a threesome and then she seemed to be into that.  With the other provider, I asked if I could do a threesome with her girlfriend and she said no problem but she always seems to come up with an excuse when I try to set something up with she and her friend.  Now I could understand if they had problems seeing me themselves but that clearly is not a problem because most of the time they seek me out for a session and their girlfriends are already in the business.  Is something going on that I am missing?  Maybe they are trying to keep all the business for themselves or maybe providers don't like sharing clients?

Maybe the provider who seemed into the threesome is bi, but the one coming up with excuses isn't (or maybe she is, but she's new and shy around girls).  

Maybe they're both bi, but not both into each other. Maybe they're both bi, but the one doesn't like being intimate with multiple genders at the same time.  

Maybe they think three people in a session is just too much work, too stressful. Maybe it's too difficult to coordinate, or they know the other provider is flakey. I know I have a lot of provider friends who are super difficult to actually get to hang out in person - even though we talk all the time. It could be any number of things, but given the info you've provided, it doesn't sound like a jealousy / hoarding clients issue to me.  

I think the best bet for a successful duo session is choosing two providers who specifically advertise duos with each other, rather than trying to wrangle two providers who may be unsure of doing one. I know Liara Roux, Amber Bowen, and Nikki Silver/Jezebel Jay (and myself!) all advertise duos with other providers on our websites, and sometimes, even on Slixa and Backpage! Even if you're not into our duo partners, I do think that those of us who are more obvious about offering duos with specific people would be more open to the idea of doing one with another provider of your choosing. There's a reason we advertise duos.... Because we really enjoy them!  

Good luck

Hi Chelsea,  
Thanks for sharing your wisdom and insight. I never thought about seeking out providers that offer doubles.  Good idea!  I just figured that since I have spent time with all four of these ladies and they offered doubles that it would be a no brainer to go and do it.  You have good points and I am sure that many of them applied to my situation.