To the Hostess with the Mostess - a few thoughts

Hi Zayla:

The stomach is the second fastest way to man's heart, and you will have already satisfied the first, so the baked goods are probably not necessary. You also want to be careful people don't come to expect them, because then getting them will bring only a little joy but not getting them disappointment.  

For bath supplies unscented is good. You should also be super clear about pointing what is what - you will know instantly that the green bottle is body soap that smells like pine, for example, but a lot of guys will get lost quickly. Saying "what do you want" and then clearly showing the best match would go far.  

For shaving supplies be super sure that any blade is only used once. You know this, but just for the record. Also get the very best blades you can - spending an extra $3 dollars is worth it if it reduces a cut or two.

Only other thing that comes to mind: nice big towels.  

You sound awesome, by the way

Wow, Zayla...I'm thinking Once in a Lifetime Experience here with your pampering ways...

...I always am fresh out of the shower squeaky clean when I see a woman but I am usually outcall so that makes it easier for me. When I visit you I'll be happy to shower again. I'd enjoy scented deodorant and soaps. Whatever you enjoy for scents will work for me. I know what I like but I'd prefer to learn what scents a woman enjoys on a man. I'd prefer a bathrobe (preferably adorned with my trademarked monogram but, if you don't have the opportunity to have one modified, I'll be cool with that.    oh, and fuzzy puppy dog slippers would be a nice touch.) I won't need a washcloth warmer 'cuz I kick it old school and warm my washcloths under the hot running water from the faucet. No need for razors as I come pre shaved...( really? guys waste their and the Providers' time shaving at her incall?! Whatever ) I was going to ask for a mani-pedi during my visit but I'd much prefer sampling your tasty baked goods, what a treat! Should I bring my own plastic food containers?

The only thing I can think of that you could include would be valet parking. I've heard that parking is scarce and expensive in SFO and I'll be renting a car for this trip so that would be helpful.  ;

Agree with DS, taking care of hygiene needs should be done before showing up for incall.  With my daily swims or workouts, I sometimes wind up taking 3 showers a day.  So what's a 4th or 5th shower (upon arrival and after play) on top of that.  Showering with a lady is one of my favorite life activities

Being a bathroom freak, I love seeing all the comfort products on display.  It's like being at a 5-star hotel.  I may not use them, but I like having the option.  It shows attentiveness.  

Peanut butter cookies are the best!  Besides, I'm always hungry ...

FYI-  Using bath gels, soaps and/or shampoos that are not exactly what I use at home is a RED FLAG and hence I always bring my own.    

Large Towels would certainly be a plu

Is it more comfortable for you to come out of the shower wearing a bathrobe instead of a towel?  

Well, since there's no time to waste with a wildly sexy woman like you, I prefer 'coming' out of the shower buck naked. Action speaks louder than towels, so let's get to it. Your attentiveness is always the very best, but like the other gentleman said, I'll always bring exactly what I need for any given hobby day. Maybe even some lickable wine.  

If you're going to give me a gift, baked goodies or anything else, it has to be something that won't raise any red flags, again like the gentleman said. Two cookies would be lovely, but a dozen wouldn't work so well. I once had an atf buy me a painting. She said it reminded her of how we are together. That was one of the sweetest moments of all my hobby experiences, but regretfully, I couldn't take it. A different lady gave me a book of poetry/art. I still read that book to this day. I suppose the level of your gift would depend on how comfortable a gentleman is telling you he's married, has an SO, or if he's single. If he's single, your baked goodies are safe.

Hi Zayla, don't know if we'll ever get the opportunity to meet but I applaud your thoughtfulness in the things you provide. Shows a level of caring and class that appeals.

My vote would definitely be for bathrobes, highest quality pima cotton, svp.

And cookies or other sweets, as I venture back into the world, top notch!

Toiletries and small edible gifts

Wow what a sweetheart, this is very rare in this day in age, where someone does something nice for someone else, there has to be give and receive in any relationship or it will never work. If more women were like you, this hobby wouldn't be around LOL I forgot what it was like to receive something nice from a woman don't ever change this is a rare quality today to many people are selfish take care