okay,

saw a cute girl on BP.  Texted, got really quick reply, etc.... I then asked if the girl in the photo is the girl I would see.  No response... I asked again,  no response.

I assume I asked a fair question, and this is a bad sign. Since I am new to this, I thought I would double check....  

sorry if seems stupid to ask, and thanks for your help

First you start at identifying yourself, not posting some issues that you are concern about hobbying, with a questionable handle or alias, it is hard to accomplished anything with that, because it is very fucking suspicious, for all of us, we don't really want to publicly guide you to a detailed process how to verify photos, tel nos, and others, etc,etc because all these sites are constantly monitored with legal and editorial discretion, due to a watchful media, LE's especially for minors and illegal activities. If you have a legit "handle" you can always get a PM from someone experience people from both side of the industry willing to help. It's all about privacy and discreetness which you probably knew that already just by using your alias, and in your case you are trying to obtain information to a public forum. Very suspicious to everyone. Second WTF common sense prevails, if you are having problems with BP move on to other dating sites they're plenty of them around. And finally you have received plenty of advice already from your last post, the rest is yours, do your homework man and work a little harder just like everyone else. If you really serious having fun with this hobby. Good Luck...

Best advice ever. Thank you.

Word!

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Not sure what is your question exactly?

You're not the first nor the last to ask that question. I sometimes asked what her height & weight is. Occasionally I even ask her to send a selfie. It all depends on my instinct feeling about the specific girl and her ad.

The girls especially those on BP are experienced with these types of questions and fully expected them.  

If the girl does not respond or respond the way you like feel free to pass her over and go on to the next one. There are PLENTY of fishes in the sea of BP.

Sorry, friend, but you're not going to get a real answer anywhere other than the newbie FAQ board.  

Except mine, it's your lucky day.

If you'd posted this to that board, people would have said this.  

1. Read the self-help section, which has many good posts threads on these kind of questions that have been hand-selected for accuracy and tone.  I'll link to it below. It really helped me out and I encourage you to visit.

2. Search old posts for similar questions. Add a zero or two to the 30 day default to get more.

3. Don't see people who aren't well reviewed (until you've got lots and lots of experience, and, preferably, nothing to lose).

 
Good luck out there  


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Apparently another random double

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