I am not always that late.  And a lot of times, the time of the date isnt set in stone... so when they say that I am two hours late it might be two hours from the start point of a "oh between 8 or 9" which I of course will think 9 and then end up being late for even that.  I am not saying my lateness is okay.  It isnt.  I hate it. I just cant seem to do much better.  Even when I am sure I will be on time, I poke my eye, cant find my keys, son gets a  nosebleed... So give me a break... most of the guys who have seen me think I am worth it.. and I do try to make up for that very bad aspect of my personality.  Anyways, just tell me sooner than you want me to be there... It seems to work ok and if I end up being early, I will wait... I deserve to wait.  xoxo