I just wanted to pass along a true story that some of you may or may not find interesting. Apparently the world is not as large as I once thought since the following couldn't have happened if it were. I recently had a great encounter with one of our local ladies that I've had my eye on for the past couple of years. She's been well reviewed and is known to anyone who reads the reviews on a regular basis. Her schedule and mine just hadn't come into the proper alignment to allow us to get together and I really wasn't diligent in pursuing time with this lady until recently. Well, the time was right, our schedules were clear and we made arrangements to meet at an establishment we both knew the next morning. Finally, the time came and I arrived at the agreed upon location. Obviously, I was early because she was nowhere to be found. After waiting a few minutes, I called her to see if she was still coming. She answered and said that we were still on and she was about five minutes away. Sure enough, twenty minutes and a tense LE drive by  later she finally arrived. She looked great; she smelled great and was dressed to turn heads. We proceeded to the room she had gotten earlier and made ourselves comfortable and got to know each other a little better before commencing with the physical part of our get together. Since this not a review, I'm not going to go into graphic detail about what we did. She has enough reviews that she doesn't need another one from me. Needless to say that it certainly lived up to my expectations. After a great first round, she and I cleaned up and retired to the bed to recover for a time, talk and prepare for the second round. I asked her questions about her past and she did likewise. Somewhere in the conversation she mentioned the name of the elementary school she attended from the fourth grade on. Funny thing, it was the same one I attended. We talked about a few teachers at the school and come to find out we had the same sixth grade teacher. Quite a coincidence. Since she is three years younger than myself there was no possibility of us having been classmates since I had moved on to Junior High by the time she started attending this school. She then mentioned the name of the Junior High she attended. Guess what, it was the same one I attended. Again, our age difference still prevented us from being at the school at the same time since Junior High was only a two-year program at that time. Needless to say, she moved on to High School and sure enough, it was the same one I attended. I really wasn't surprised at that. At this point, it was expected. We were classmates for a year at the High School level. She asked the usual questions about "did you know so and so?" and "did you have this teacher?” There were a few familiar names here and there but nothing noteworthy. I then recalled my sister who is 2-1/2 years my junior and told her that she might have run into her at some point since she attended the same schools a few years after me. She asked what her name was and without fully thinking about the repercussions of answering truthfully I told her my sisters first name. I could tell by the look of recognition on her face that I may have made a bad decision to divulge that information. The next word out of her mouth was my sister’s last name. It also happened to be mine as well. This girl that I had just had carnal relations with and was sitting with naked on a bed in a motel room was my sisters best friend during their Junior High and early High School days. She knew whom I was because of her many visits to my childhood home to play with my sister. She knew both my mother and father and had spoken with me in passing during her visits. Everything was clear now and all those long lost memories came flooding back. I remember thinking about how I would be really interested in this girl if she were a little older because she was really cute and looking her over out of the corner of my eye while her and my sister did their thing. I remember all the impure thoughts I had about her even at that age. I remembered seeing her on campus in High School (more impure thoughts). The look on both our faces at this moment is something I would pay dearly to have a photo of. A mixture of terror and surprise. Needless to say, there was no second round. We sat silently for a moment or two and then uttered a few tense words about the past. Inside, I was freaking out and suspect she felt similarly. Checkout time was nearing and she suggested that it might be best to get going since the cleaning lady had already banged on the door once. I agreed, so we dressed and went our separate ways. Follow up e-mails confirmed that she did feel a bit weird about the whole thing but was fine with it now and further added that it might be fun to get together again since we had “a secret”. She might be right.

P.S. The other participant in this story gave me her blessing to post this. I promised not to post her name so please don’t ask

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It can be a very small world.  Several years ago I had an appointment with a provider and as usually happens some quetions were asked like where did you grow up or go to school.  Not having grown up in this area I had no hesitations of saying I was born in "X" city but my parents moved when I was in high school to "Y" city.  

At that point see starts saying well did you go to school with this person or with there brother or sister, giving last names of families I knew.  Needless to say I was a little surprised to find out that we had grown up in the same relatively small town.  She was  a little younger than the woman in your story so our paths would not have crossed.  It made things a little funny but also interesting at the same time.  

Too much information can sometimes be a little scary.  Having a carnal relation at this point in your lives might be a little safer than when you were young.  Now both have something to loose if the information gets out.  

The one factor that was not mentioned was whether this woman still has any contact with your sister.  A very innocent statement like "I ran into your brother the other month" could really start a rock rolling downhill, I'd say snowball but who knows about snow around here.  Then if your sister starts asking questions you have to make sure your answers jive with the stories she might have heard from her friend.

You may want to make sure that you previous encounter and any future ones must be kept confidential.  Otherwise, I think the connection from the past can enhance your time together, especially when this was a person that you had desires for in your youth.  Isn't this why some people go the class reunions, hoping to do something they were unable to do in their youth or relive something they did.

A part of the thrill of this hobby is that we are walking on the high wire without a net.  One slip can ruin our entire life, this is true for both sides.  You may have inadvertently stumbled into a situation that raised to wire a little and thus the stimulation factor.  It may actually a great fortune and not a misfortune, especially if things were great before you found out.

Okay, folks...anyone who knows the singer/ songwriter who wrote that line wins a bottle of Two Buck Chuck!

Whoa, NMax...I can relate, buddy.  I had a "date" with a woman I had talked with several times and seen numerous times over the years at a place we both patronize as civilians, but as we were both adults, it didn't have the guilt factor that seemingly is always involved regarding younger girls (I posted something on the National regarding that).  

I disagree that there is any danger here for you, unless you are married.  I mean, it is unlikely that she would tell your sister that she is a provider.  I think your second get together (if there is one) could be absoltely awesome, and I am envious of you.  How many guys woudn't want to nail a woman that they used to even mildly fantasize about as a kid?

unless, of course, you think someone suggesting that you should have sex with your sister would be okay.

Tacky.

-- Modified on 1/12/2004 8:00:21 PM

because you also know your sister's best friend in High School is a provider. Laugh and enjoy!

I too have had an interesting discovery. About 16 months ago I made an appointment with a then, unknown provider. She now has several pages of high marks. Then when I visited her incall the drapes were closed and the apartment was dim. After enjoying the session we began to talk and she asked me what I did for a living. I told her and she said do you know so and so, I answered, yes, then she informed me that he was her ex-husband. I had not seen him him in several months but I liked the guy and remember the stories floating around the industry about the guys wife. She then asks me if I know this other guy and again I did. She then tells me that she was his secretary and that I had   walked right past her desk, many times, to meet with her boss. Yes, by then I had remembered her and of course, her real name.  
Strange, and no I haven't gone back.