It's a beautiful rainy day in San Diego, and I am sitting at home, a bit vexed, tad disappointed.  Why, you ask?  Well, here's the story:

I recently scanned the San Diego ad page, and found a provider whose profile and rating were both quite good.  Her rates were reasonable, and so I contacted her via e-mail.  We decided to meet on Saturday (i.e. today) in the afternoon for some fun at her incall location at 2:00 p.m.  Two hours before the appointment she sends me her address and pushes the meeting back to 3:00 p.m.  Since it's a pretty mellow day, I didn't really care.  An hour here or there; no big deal.  She further informs me in the e-mail that she will need to see my I.D. when I show up at her place.  

This is where I draw the line.  Here are my reasons:  I have been hobbying for almost two years now.  I have been whitelisted by plenty of women, and I have plenty of references.  I completely understand a provider's need to protect herself, and to feel comfortable with a client, especially a new one.  She could've easily asked me for references, done her homework, and then confirmed the appointment with me.  In fact she mentions in her ad that she will require references, then why the f**k are you asking me for my I.D.?  Now had I been a newbie with no references, I would have gladly shown you my I.D.  I have paid my dues in this game.  

There are plenty of beautiful providers in San Diego, let alone southern California.  Mature hobbyists like myself can see right through a provider's shenanigans.  I've seen it all, and experienced it all.  In the end, it was her loss.  Someone else who is more willing and aboveboard will benefit.  

To my fellow hobbyists, please don't PM inquiring about the provider.  I will not give out her name because unlike her, I respect her reputation and time.