I am new to the hobbie and was just wondering what would have been the proper thing to do in this instance. I emailed a provider after seeing her on ter. Her pics where somewhat obscure but none the less I contacted her because of good reviews. When I met her I didnt really want to continue. I did but only stayed 1/2 hour then wanted to get out. I did pay the full fee which is not the question. The question is upon 1st meeting her could I have refused the time and just left, or would I still owe her something for blocking out the time thanks. I really dont want to be ignorant to the provider, but dont want to pay for something I really dont want. I would appreciate hearing from both providers and hobbiest.

The only time you should send a lady away is if she doesn't look close to the pictures posted or it is not the lady in the picture.  

If you choose to continue on pursuing a lady that has obscured pictures then the blame lies with you.  I personally won't see a lady with obscured pictures unless it barely hides her facial features so that she can remain somewhat anonymous.

The best thing you can do is purchase a vip membership and compare the looks reviews of other reviewers of various ladies.  Some guys give more credible reviews regarding looks than others.  Also, take into consideration that looks are in the eyes of the beholder.  Just do your homeworks and things will work out OK.  Keep in mind that even though you do your homework, once in a while things will not go as planned for some reason or another.

I have been told that it is best to leave rather than stay and have a bad time (and thus a bad review).  I don't think anything is owed if you decide the lady is not for you.  Obscured photos are a two-edged sword for the ladies who use them--it protects their privacy, but leaves them open for those who upon arrival find there is insufficient attraction to go through with the appointment.  Frankly, I have found looks ratings by the guys to be unreliable.

then be polite, say goodbye and leave.  Unfortunately most guys think with their little head and go for it anyways.  YOU HAVE TO PAY to play.  Going with it makes an uncomfortable and unpleasant experience for the both of you.

It can also work the other way where she declines you.  It's a rarity, but it does happen.

Good Luck on your next try.

i agree with curiousgeorgy. if you call them out you should give them 20-50 dollers for gas and time. but if you go to them in my opinion nothing is owed. but if i where you never ever invite a girl to your house on the first time or ever.