I'm not new at this. But I never really made any special requests.
I had set an appt with a great provider. Calls, communicationa and comfirming seemed to be going well. Until the last email where I had asked about garters, etc.
Was this a bad move?
I didn't hear back from her after that.

Absolutely not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I so prefer a gent letting me know what he prefers rather have any disappointments.

for one thing it makes it easier to get dressed or not too...wink


As far as I know I think most ladies don't mind a gent asking.

xoxox
Terri

I always try and remember to ask what he likes, its just a courtesy thing, it helps me know what he likes best and that I can please him as soon as he sees me!

Rowan
602-326-0992

But, the request should be something that the provider should have readily in her closet.  Sometimes I've been asked to wear something like a secretarial outfit...o.k. I gave up those clothes when I changed careers (wink)

garters, stockings and silky black lingerie are staples for most women.

Ladies, please help us out...."don't mind men asking" or actually prefer some communication ahead of time on attire preferences/likes?
THANK YOU!

....me do my best on a first date than to let me know what things you would like me to wear.  Everyone has different styles and I think most ladies love to know what is pleasing to her date.   I also think that most ladies will at least reply back if there is a problem with your requests unless they are very innapropriate.  So I don't think this was a bad move on your part to ask, but a bad move to never write back to you over something as kinda basic as a garter. I have had that request (for example) to wear with a dress when accompanying a politician to a ball before when he wanted to think of that underneath my dress.   It was even his aide who set it up and made the request! lol

Garters seems harmless to me....the worst she should have done was say no. Maybe you should email her again and find out what's up.

I think it's fine to make a special request.  Sexy lingere, garters, mini skirt, heels, etc.  So long as it's something the lady you are dating would normally have on hand.

It's your party and quality providers want you to have a good time and appreciate knowing if some sort of sexy attire turns you on.

If it's something out of the ordinary or expensive you should offer to pay for it.  A girl shouldn't be expected to have a $400 leather dominatrix outfit and thigh boots unless she offers that service.

But a girl always enjoys something sexy from Victoria's Secret and I think most are happy to model it for you if requested.

Best,
TS Jamie

I always request special attire. Why not?  You are the one that is paying for the appt and that type of request should NOT be any issue for a top notch lady. If they will not honor your request and don't call you back...consider yourself lucky that she saved you the franklins to be spent better else where. There are too many options to have to "settle" out there!