This is to respond to the blasting that I just recieved from Terri of AZ.  

I found your emails in my BULK MAIL FOLDER of a email address that I do not use.

I do reference ANYONE, I do not appreciate you BLASTING me on a public board for something that you were to lazy to pick up a phone and call me to find out.

I have spoken with several of the ladies that know you in Arizona, and NONE of them ever have had issues with me referencing at all..

So im not sure why you found it necessary to do this, but It is ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE.

I do REFERENCE and you should be more careful in your attempts to trash someone.

I thought since you have your banner on my website you would have my email address and my PHONE NUMBER..

I wish you well...

see here! obviously you only see what you want and had to have help from someone else....

It was only a question as to why you did not respond to 2 emails...now that you have found them I still have not gotten my reference check! Please do so!

I suggest to you that you change your email address on your profile as that is where I got it from....You may want to do this very soon as this is where gents go to get the info!

Thank you for responding but I still need the reference. I will let the few know that say you don't offer references know that you do!



My Post was not a blast nor a cut...just an observation as to why some do not give references and what the gents feel about seeing someone who does not....my post under yours was a question as to why you did not respond to me, so now I know, now respond to me....since you had to get your did into me on a sperate post I still have not got back a return email.


Have a great Day and Sweetie this was not a trash post so don't call it that!

PS
your banner is also on my website, but the information I used was on TER profile, so you may want to up date that to show the correct information!

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we could finish it off by a jello wrestling contest with a minimum of three rounds.  We can charge admission with all proceeds going to the winners' favorite charity.  What do you say??

Are you ready to rumble???

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I'm a lover not a fighter and I wasn't starting one I just wanted an answer! Nothing wrong in sharing!

I dont confront people in public forums, I have called you and left a message..you have not called me back...if you want a reference, I think you owe me an apology, my email is correct, and as I stated you were in the "BULK FOLDER", I do not do business this way...call if you want your reference, I would be happy to accomodate you with anything you might need!!

But think twice before calling out a girl on the board unless you have yor facts straight...

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I'm not taking anyone's side in this. I'm just addressing what you wrote, Terri.

Your original post was not just an observation; it was an accusation. You accused ladies who don't give references of being selfish and of putting other ladies at risk.

There are valid reasons for not giving a reference, and any lady who does not ask for references is not obligated to give them.

I, for one, do not ask for or even accept references (with the exception of, I think, four in my entire career), which I state on my website. I do all my screening myself, because there is no one I trust more than myself. Yet, I have given dozens of references, because I so appreciated a few of the ones that I received.

I take the responsibility of giving a reliable reference seriously. I don't give a reference for someone who I would not see again myself. This has led to some very awkward situations for me. I would not be surprised if a lot of providers just give the reference to avoid turning anyone down and having a disgruntled client or provider on their hands.

Also, being part of the reference system does not, in itself, make a person courteous. A couple of months ago, a popular Beverly Hills provider requested a reference from me. After receiving it, she never thanked me or even replied! (Yes, she received my email.)



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