San Diego
GFE but NOT in the good way!
Something I just wanted to vent about when it comes to girls in this profession.
Summary: They are providing a service, but without fail, a good percentage of them nag, complain, and are not willing to do basic things that help make this an enjoyable fantasy.
Examples: No offense to the providers mentioned, as I know for a fact they're good people, but I seem to have perpetually bad experiences with them.
I like a girl to wear high heels during sex. Is that so bad? A girl you're dating may think so. "Im not a whore!" she will say. "What do you think I am, a prostitute?". I've heard this countless times.
The last thing i want is to ask a provider to wear heels during and have them bitch and moan that they dont "want" to. Excuse me, you're providing a service here. I don't have to pay for sex. If I want to argue with a girl and beg like an idiot to get you to wear heels, I can get that from my current booty call.
Weirdest thing - Camille who I think is a really cool girl, just pissed me the hell off this week. I wanted her to wear heels but inevitably every time I ask her to, she will actually hang up the phone on me, or give me this sour lame ass attitude like im asking for her firstborn child. Same thing with Grace. "OHhhhh" she says "Why do I have to wear heels? I dont want to". Thats a direct quote. I replied 'This is supposed to be a turnon, a fantasy.' she replies "I knowww, but i dont feel like it". Okay.
There are other topics too. I've had providers refuse to wear a skirt, or ... ok I guess I can summarize, there's a good % of providers who will just plain refuse to do ANYTHING you ask them to do. They aren't rude about it but they act "put upon" and .. that just annoys the hell out of me.
Im paying for a fantasy. I expect one delivered. Is that so wrong?
You arrogant, egotistical son of a bitch.
Who the hell do you think you are?
Just because you're throwing money around you think you get whatever you want?
If the lady says no that means no.
Whether to Greek, CIM, heels or whatever.
If the lady doesn't want to do what you want, leave her alone and find someone who will.
Don't whine to everyone and show the world what a dick you are.
Guys like you really piss me off.
You think that just because you are throwing money around that gives you the right to demand someone do something they may not want to.
If you don't like the "fantasy" you're getting go somewhere else, but don't whine about it like a little "girlie boy".
Just my opinion...
B
I tend to agree with Bobb, especially on the heels issue. If you think wearing heels while you are trying to "provide" is fun, try it sometime. There are thankfully (for you) some girls who like it (like our new gal Lindsey, below), but I have known several providers who have back issues and who could never do it even if they wanted to.
Unfortunately, the way you say that you were told this by Camille was not professional. If a lady has a problem with a request, she should be able to simply state the it is something that she doesn't want to do (or can't do) during your encounter, and then you have the right to move on if you want to. By that token, I agree with Bobb. I don't think there is an "obligation" for anyone in this profession to do ANYTHING they don't want to. It is up to them how they run their business, and if they don't have enough business because of something, it is up to them how they handle it. However, that is THEIR issue. They deal with enough making themself available to anyone for the most intimate thing they can share. Try it sometime, and then you will understand.
Again, though, there are plenty of fish out there. Look around, and you should always be able to find someone willing to indulge your fantasy (as loing as it is safe).
what the hell is this guy talking about is he on the same page as the rest of us. asking a provider to wear heels and a skirt is no way too much to ask. this is just the typical guy who lets providers take advantage of him and rip him off. sad that people are so ignorent
At least with the ladies.
I believe that as long as your not asking her to do something that is a hazard to her health or cost her an amount of money, then she should be willing to do it. I love a woman who is wearing a dress or skirt with nothing under it. I've requested it a few times and the reviews have been mixed. I can tell you that the girls who complied had a much better time with me.
She had her heels on the whole time. She is also one of my alltime favorites.
Yes, I agree, you should be able to have that (and similar) desire not only nag free but with enthusiasm. Fee is for service and this is the fantasy date profession. But, lol, I had a date nag me for wanting to keep my heels on. It is hard keeping up with everyone's different desires, but then that's what the expense includes. This job isn't for everyone!
I think wearing heels or certain lingerie is a perfectly reasonable request by a hobbyist. It's a part of the "fantasy adventure" he is looking for--not some kinky or dangerous activity.
Sure, no lady has to do anything she doesn't like in this business ...but complaining about heels? ladies like that sound immature and they must not want repeat business.
There are so many other women who will be more than willing to accommadate your fetishes, fanstasies and requests. So don't get so tightly wound up about it all.
I have seen some of the most wonderful ladies who would be willing to do just about anything you ask of them and then some more. You just have to find them first.
look for one who does! she is obviously not a good match for you. It does not matter what it is you are requesting..........nobody is juding you for liking heels and you have not right to judge those who do not like them....
I do not think it is a service issue unless she promised to wear them and then decided to change her mind.
kisses & licks
mara
I know a girl that keeps her heels on normally!
Honey/Babydoll in La Jolla
Izzy
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