Gotta have back-up funds for super specials, out of towers suddenly showing up, up grading meetings to doubles for similar reasons or even extending time with an ATF. But I suggest saving an "E-Fund" if possible! (I do it for shoes that just blow my mind! LOL)

What's a guy to do?....

...take solace in the fact that there are a dozen(s)...if not hundreds more guys that are in the same situation as you.

My advice is to keep it in San Diego and don't get sucked into that Vegas or elsewhere thing. The out of towners will come back and it seems like they might be doing that a little more of that now....I am not sure.

You will never be 9 out of 10 by being set up by friends, family and co workers, so you have done well. The review process with TER works very well for hobbydudes and providers alike if they know how to use it.

Pennies gone are maybe well spent?

Sometimes it's just better to back up and get out of the store. That's why we are on a budget.

The girls will either come back or another one will come along. If this one is so special, see if you can schedule a meeting for her next visit.

Save your $, or do not tease yourself by surfing the net.

Maybe attend a M&G if possible, so you can meet the ladies...

but what a visitor when there are some many fine SD ladies?