What you should do is go write her name and number accompanied by "for a good time call.." on a bathroom stall over at your local gas station. Maybe that'll treat her a lesson.

I have been beating for a long time.  ness (and fellow hobbiests) - Here's the paradox.  Some of the local ladies on this board developed 'hard feelings' toward me when I voiced my opinions (similar to yours) about this very subject.  They had an attitude of "If you don't want to share that info then don't bother me".  As you point out, they say they will be discreet, but man-o-man doesn't it suck when what happened to you also happens to so many fellow hobbiests.  I can remember from the not so distant past, one provider saying she shreds the info.  To me, the whole work info is way to sensitive to give to a provider - whether she says she is responsible or not.  The provider hides behind the excuse it is for her own protection but we all know thats a bunch of BS.  Bottomline -  its up to all of us what are level of info share is.  If one provider is asking for too much, move on.  Most of all - Stay Safe out there!

This is the very reason I have never submitted to screening, and have passed up some of the babes in San Diego,

The essence of this sport is anonymity ...

Re:What does one do with an agency/provider that...

This agency did the same thing to me.  The woman was really rude, and to boot the provider tried to upsell at the appointment.  There are plenty of reviewed girls here in San Diego...like the beautiful Mya.  Do yourself a favor guys, stay away from said agency from Seattle and go see Mya while she is in town. Worth every penny and minute of your time.

You hobby to a high standard. Discretion is everything, like rhnp sez below, and this unprofessional behavior is dangerous to us.