San Diego
You boys certainly do like your numbers don't ya? While you may take credit for "breaking us in" I might suggest to you that it could be the other way around...
I have said it before and I'll say it again... I am not a number and neither are my clients. I do however realize that a standard of performance should be something that a client can expect and my ratings reflect the minimum standard that I am comfortable offering as a garauntee.
Ratings higher than my averages are dependent on specific criteria here and that may vary depending on a list of factors that can change from day to day. Generally I try to keep the "above and beyond" personal so that I won't dissapoint anyone or have them feel that it is a personal issue I have with them when it may very well have nothing to do with them at all.
If a long standing regular takes the time out of his schedule to review me I do ask that they stick to the guidelines of my profile. The level of intimacy can be much different with someone whose risk factor you are far more familiar with or to whom you extend those longer more relaxed appoinments that can lead to trying new things or exploring a higher level of kink than you would normally. Feeling safe and confident has a lot to do with it.
I don't always remember to mention that to new clients and sometimes the connection is immediate and comfort levels established right from the start....it also doesn't hurt to know that you cum highley reccomended by a friendly provider.
Like it or not this business is intimate and personal. If a provider doesn't assess her level of comfort to account for the various things that may change with each appointment and feels pressured to provide the same things to every client on every occasion she may very well find herself burned out or at least not having the enthusiasm for it as she once did. Losing that enthusiasm is something I am very careful to avoid as I can think of nothing in the world I enjoy more than the intimacy of a good lover.