Plan to be in the SD / Temecula area over the next few months on business. During my visits, interested in meeting attractive, fit latin or caucasian lady to spend some quality time with, potentially on a regular basis over the next few months.

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are threads like this just for the ego boost? The "Let's see how many providers chase ME instead of my having to do homework!" fix?  Or is there an effort to weed out shillers?  Or is it just "I'm an executive and I'm too busy to do homework!" Because aside from having everything you need to find these answers already on TER, as general of terms as are stated here (attractive...fit... Latin or Caucasian) or in the thread that goes up like it a few times a month, it's hard to give a very specific recommendation. I mean, I know an attractive, fit Caucasian lady in her 50's, and one who is 21. I know a lady who is over 200lb but is big boned and is fit and attractive, as well as one who is about 98lbs.

I dunno...I'm sure it's just me being critical and not being social. At least you obviously are for real with 30 reviews. I love when these are posted by guys with two or less reviews.

Anyway...good luck. There are quite a few ladies who fit your range on here...I'm sure some will reply. One already has.

MrSelfDestruct,

I posted a similar "recommendations" post earlier. Here's my take....

I know my home geography fairly well, including its popular boards, reviewers, etc. I can usually research fairly quickly and efficiently based on what I've observed in my local market over the years, reviewers with good reps, the good/bad providers, etc. Over time, like anything you may study, you become proficient at it.

I recently find myself traveling about 50% each month. Each city is a new "market", each with it own different "behavior" patterns, popular boards, good areas/bad areas, etc. Let alone, with this amount of travel and good looking single male, traditional dating could be difficult under this travel schedule. So, while I could spend a few hours researching each new market, the reality is for me, a business traveler, I am lucky to have time to check-in to my hotel, hit the hotel gym for a workout, then meet colleagues for dinner, etc, let alone spend a few hours on the internet researching. Shit, this week, I've been to three cities, I haven't even turned on a TV all week. I've completely lost track of the line on the Superbowl (go Ravens!).

For example, I posted earlier this weekend. I ended up getting lucky at the hotel bar Friday night, so I am happy for the moment. But, I am in town through late week and may investigate many of the fine recommendations and PMs I received, assuming I am able to wrap up my business engagements in a timely fashion during the evening this week. Hell, maybe I'll even get lucky again at the various bars/dinners/receptions I am attending this week. My point being, TER/Hobby is a "Plan-B" for me.

Is that so wrong? Isn't the the whole point of these boards and TER? Just like I may watch CNBC each morning for some good stock tips, but ultimately I conduct my own research based on those recommendations? Damn, would you buy a stock blindly on a Jim Kramer tip - I hope not! But, he may give you a good lead or two!

My point is, under this time crunch and the everyday rush-rush of life, I simply do not have the time to conduct my own exhaustive research. So, I post a question, rely on friendly hobbiest such as yourself for some "leads", then research on TER, Google, etc. F

My two cents from a business traveler, who uses the hobby as an occasional escape & fantasy, or has a few weeks drought of the more "traditional/vanilla" dinner/drinks approach - haha.

Sorry for the dissertation and rambling - I've enjoyed a few of your fine SD micro brew pubs this evening with a business colleague & his wife this evening. I hope my comments are useful and insightful!

I know 2 top rated Latina twins...

Check out my website for a photo the HOTTEST Milf I know Mama E & she is pretty fit it all aspects.
She has TER reviews to if you want to look her up Mama Eclipse.  She is a tightey whitey who is a doll to be around.  I would LOVE to watch her in action anytime!

I've used such inquiries in other markets with some success. Trust me it's not about ego - not many ladies chase. But the Hobbyist community does provide good insight.

I had almost forgotten what these looked like. If this was more the norm, I would probably be more polite in my phrasing as well, but I have been on these boards for 10 years now, and they have changed a lot without active moderation. Ah, Sedagive...where are you now, my friend?  

Okay, so first off...glad you had a good time in the city, and got lucky with a pickup Friday night. I hope she was up to the level of the providers in town.

I hear your reasons, and appreciate them. My point is that when you made your initial post, all you had in the criteria you were looking for was a "very good DFK'er", and you said you were staying near Petco, but were looking for recommendations nearby.

Aside from what I already said in my initial post, which is that something as simple as requesting a "very good DFK'er" leaves a LOT of room for interpretation (age, body type, hair color, race, style) for recommendations, only a small proportion of ladies live in Downtown...but almost all ladies would do outcall there, but you don't say if that is an option or not.

I am glad you have received a lot of suggestions via PM, and I hope one works out for you, bud...honestly. My main point is just that it makes it harder for hobbyists that WOULD like to help you when you give us so little to go on, as we don't know if there are types you would prefer, which would save us time of suggesting ladies who may not be in your real target area anyway. Either we PM you with six women of disparate natures and you have to search through them, or we have to exchange PM's to clarify, or you just get one suggestion from someone with a clear preference for that provider when there may have been better options for you if the original search features were more clearly outlined.

Bottom line...my issue is more with the lack of definition of what you are looking for than you looking for recommendations. When I used to be VIP on here, I gave out quite a few recommendations in my time. It just seems that lately there have been an increase in recommendations that are very vague in the type of lady that is being sought...so there is MY dissertation and rambling.

Thanks again for the polite reply, and glad you have had a good time so far and hope it continues for you. Peace.

Hello

Although I am based in Los Angeles, it's very easy (and fun!) for me to get to San Diego, as long as there is at least a little bit of notice.

I was born in South America and am half European.  I have a very flexible schedule and would love to get to San Diego more often

Thanks... Hope you find what you're looking for!

xoxo
Lela

Lucky you!!

San Diego is one of my favorite places to visit. Hopefully, we will be lucky enough for our paths to cross!!

XOXO
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