For me one of the funnest parts of an encounter is when the person I'm seeing enjoys the session about as much as I do.  Of course its pretty evident when a guy gets off.  Less so for a woman.  I've been in sessions where the provider could have won an AVN with her acting skills.  But I'm pretty sure she wasn't really letting go.  Other times however, I'm almost certain she came too.  When that happens, it really makes a good session into a great one for me.  How about you?  And of course I'd be interested in hearing providers' perspectives.

Agree..  I like my girl to enjoy and climax too. Hopefully, the women I have had the pleasure of being with feel the same way.

I also enjoy giving the lady I am with an O or two.  Most of the ladies I have visited have had an O or two ....not faked....no academy award performance....a real orgasm usually from DATY

Ossie, Glam and I have one super hot lady in common, who definitely loves to get off. And there's plenty of proof via the wet discharge she emits. But if you just get the moans, well it's anybody's guess then. Most I've been with actually get there, but a few have done some acting IMO. Always fun and an ego boost when the lady makes it. Certainly completes the GFE too.
One lady I see rarely hosts, but when she does she sees 3 gents that day over a 6 hr period. I always see her first right after she checks in hotel, and she told me after she came twice that it would take her 4 hrs before she could come again. So, guess the poor guy who is second in line gets the act.  

Who is our common lady friend?

If it happens it does make the date much much better. But I won't obsess if it was real or not, might as well wonder if she actually likes  you  or is faking an interest in you.

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See PM I sent you.

Being good at DATY seems to be the key to achieving that result.  I saw a provider recently who requested it.  We were making out 10 minutes into the encounter when she gave me this sexy smile and asked straight out "Wanna eat my pussy?"  How could I say no?  And she definitely came, and made sure I had a good time too.

Definitely sounds like the hottie we have in common Ossie.

Ahhhh, the oldest question since the Garden of Eden...Adam says to Eve, "was it good for you?"

I think it's awesome if a provider actually does orgasm during a session.  It pushes the experience to a much higher level.  However, despite what about 95% of the reviews would have you believe, it is IMHO extremely unlikely that it happens as easily or as often as most reviewers seem to think.  I'm sure that every reviewer or client based upon the feedback he gets during a hot session is a fabulous lover. Realistically what are the odds that is true?

 I just can't help looking at the math.  First of all, it is highly unusual within the general population for women to be multi-orgasmic.  Even if we accept that it's a pre-requisite for deciding to become a provider, the physical realities are decidedly against it being true.  Do to common refractory periods males and females, eventually become desensitized or hyper-sensitized after reaching whatever their potential for orgasm is and further stimulation until after the refractory period just simply prevents more orgasms.  If that weren't true guys could have an infinite capacity for orgasm and ejaculate until they died of dehydration...LOL.

For guys it's a more mechanical process than for women and the results for us are obvious.  Women can fake it a lot more easily than we can, and given the circumstances and realities of the hobby are, again IMHO, more likely to succeed in business (as measured by repeat customers and tips) if their clients leave convinced they should have given up grad school for the porn business.

Now I'm certain there are plenty of cases where a mutual physical attraction exists and it results in authentic panting squirting sweaty orgasms for both parties but in the real world how often is that the case?  

That is why I prefer to meet more mature ladies who are lower volume (or at least they seem to be) and more expensive in the hope that I find a connection for mutual pleasure because maybe she hasn't had 2 orgasms already today as somebody else pointed out about an ATF  who sees 3 guys in 6 hours.  I'm probably fooling myself but I don't like the thought of some sweet thing whispering dirties in my ear while she's looking at her watch...  Did anybody ever see Klute (1971)?  I've never forgotten it despite Jane Fonda being the star.

Just my 2 cents.  Have fun, play safe

In high school, I took two years of Chemistry and had quite a bit of labatory time.

Several decades later, my interest is now in Biology lab work.  It's like being back in high school, only much more fun and no tests, only experiments.

I enjoy learning about the wide variety in female sexual response.  For instance, two women explained to me that they could orgasm only by humping a pillow.

A 27 year old local gal told me that she had only been able to orgasm by riding cowgirl
so that she could rub her clit on a guy's pelvic bone.

I told her to move up, ride my face, and hold on.  In that position I could easily rub her very long nipples while exercising my tongue.  After about five minutes she discovered that she could orgasm in a second way.

One of the most satisfying aspects of being with a lot of women is having shown some of them that their bodies can respond sexually in a way that had not previously known

I'm a firm believer in mutual pleasure, as well as multiple hour, multiple sessions.  Considering the crazy neighborhood right now, I enjoy the safety and comfort of familiar friends.  I want to make sure my friends are happy, since their happiness translates to my happiness now and in the future.