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aaliyahvalentine See my TER Reviews 5 reads
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I also wouldn't want to be in a place where a lot of our activity is being done. That usually brings more eyes to you and higher chances of trouble. Have you tried asking what neighborhood or area the provider's incall is before setting an appointment? Some may still see this as address collecting, but I think the majority would be fine with at least giving an area especially if you explain your discretion concerns.

A provider accused me of “address collecting” 😭.  

I had reached out to her to inquire about her availability and rates after seeing some positive reviews.  We both agreed on a time and she sent me an address to her incall.  I immediately recognized it from seeing other providers at this address.  It’s a building that can be seen from the street.  It has many businesses/suites at this address. I believed there are at least 2 -3 groups of ladies taking FBSM appointments at this address.  Although there are some great ladies here I had stopped going because there were just too much traffic of guys coming and going on a continuous basis.  Although the ladies do their best to make sure we don’t run into each other it just doesn’t feel relaxing or “safe” knowing there are 3-5 other guys there at any given time.  The same reason at FS spas, that’s why I stopped going.  Also, every time I leave I see 3-4 guys waiting in their cars; maybe waiting for their scheduled appointments 😂

Sorry, but I don’t have time to “collect addresses of FBSM providers.”  

I no longer go to FS spas, schedule with providers staying at cheap motels and now FBSM incalls that are shared by many providers.  I need to feel relaxed and “safe” while there.

Be safe everyone!

I also wouldn't want to be in a place where a lot of our activity is being done. That usually brings more eyes to you and higher chances of trouble. Have you tried asking what neighborhood or area the provider's incall is before setting an appointment? Some may still see this as address collecting, but I think the majority would be fine with at least giving an area especially if you explain your discretion concerns.

I completely agree.  So many places have numerous women who see numerous guys and it is super uncomfortable.  There is a place in a studio apt located in an old bldg near the El Cortez.  So many girls work there and so many guys visit there (at least this place only has one girl and guy at a time) but still if residents see different girls and different guys going in and out it seems suspicious.  When I went there every little noise I heard made me think the worst.  I think that place and several others get lulled into a sense of invulnerability that they get sloppy and something is bound to happen.

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