So, a well reviewed SD local (averaged about 7-8 on both scores) totally stood me up and I'm a little upset about it because I'm a nice guy who is considerate, sane, nice, etc.  
question: should I post about it?
I'm concerned that the local SD crowd will have a "get over it you little whiner" attitude. This board can be pretty frickin rough.  

What day did it happen.....yesterday, Sunday?

This happened to me once and never found out why, but it could have been anything, she got spooked, she had some life event that stopped her from being able to see you, anything could happen in life, but if you just post that you made arrangements and confirmed an hour ahead but she stood you up, I don't think anyone, especially her will be upset about it.  She stood you up for a reason that only she knows, and it was worth it to her.

Maybe her husband came home too early Or someone died. Could be anything

Move on dude and don't look back.  It happens.  Live and learn.  She didn't want your business; other ladies will.  C'est le vie and the hobby.!

As a previous post mentioned, you didn't give the day this happened. After 48 hrs I send an email or use the preferred method the escort uses for communication. I keep the contact light and ask if she's alright. If I get no reply, I simply move on.  

I am a big supporter of the idea that providers should be reimbursed a reasonable amount when a guy flakes.  However, same thing here.  Unless you did something wrong you are not saying, she should offer you a sizable discount on a rebooked session.  Those providers who are not willing to make things right when they screw up have no business expecting guys to make things right when it is the guy's fault.

wait, there isn't one, because for the most part, stuff happens and there's enough he said/she said. Some provides are habitually late, like SassypantsOff, but that gets mentioned in her reviews.

The girl might not have even known she had a date with you. With very few exceptions (when a provider is 100% independent) all the bookings, scheduling, reference checking, communications, Web presence is done by bosses. The girl's main task is to collect the envelope. Now Sissypantsoff (just love that name!) does her own scheduling, I am sure.  
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If a client does this we are blacklisted but when a provider does it there's always "a major issue". Call her out.  Give her some time to respond but if not, disclose.  This whole "move on" thing is great but when clients have a verifiable emergency it's "pay me money or I'll blacklist you".  Thjngs happen on both sides.  Anyways. I've never done it. But have had it happen to me at least twice.  With well reviewed providers.  One of which I specifically made travel arrangements for.  
Double standard.

So out of 90 providers only 2 started out with managers??  And now all 90 are independent? lol, lol On what planet is that? That is the most absurd thing I have heard yet. Actually it's much more likely to be the other way around. Two attempted to make it on their own, but eventually had to join all the others. When I began hobbying about 10 years ago, I used to believe such bs too. But I am no longer so naive. Along the way I learned alot from other hobbyists and providers. I was also lucky enough to meet a couple of insiders in the hobby who really opened my eyes. It's a very dirty business and everyone knows it.

I couldn't agree more with the double standard and the retribution on behalf of some of the providers.  In fact I have even heard of some providers with a major power issue threatening the following:  

I believe the most common wording is depicted below:

Thanks!  Thats what I heard and boy oh boy is it ever true!

Funny that you mention that. Just today there is an ad from a privider that requires full name, company information, race and telephone number. And she promises to check your ID at the door! lol What's next social security # and fingerprints?

Goldie is that you??? Hahahahah

the hobby gods invented agencies.  If a girl you have booked can't make it for ANY reason, they will offer you a different one for the same time slot, or you can pass and reschedule.

Agencies? Surely you jest. Somebody just told me all the girls are independent!!

sassypantsoff, the GFE stands for "Goofy Friend Experience."

professional and business-like in your attitude on this.  Many providers want their own time respected, but think nothing of disrespecting the time the customer has set aside to see them.  Many times they are sacrificing more than just the donation to see a provider.  If more providers approached this the way you describe, they would ultimately get more business and make discussions like this unnecessary.  Kudos.

in my experience for those that don't have refs.  I never heard of non-Asians asking about race, though.  Some of the Asian providers, especially the Viets, don't see guys of their own ethnicity because they don't want to be outed as a working girl within their own community.

The ads say that because the orgs know LE targets agencies.  Some girls who claim to be independent are, but still use an agency-type booker.  To me, they are still an agency girl even if they are technically independent because the booker will keep me apprised of any potential cancellations and offer me another girl he books for.

I'm with you Heather. I am timely.  When a gent has an apt with me at 7- he can count on the fact that I am THERE- ready to go- fresh, make up done, in something sexy at 7... The stories of girls being 30 minutes or an hour late, one gent walking out as the other is coming in..... no shows.... just irritate the hell out of me.  I don't care what you do in life- do it right, do it well, be the best at it.  I think that when we have something come up we should make it right too!

In Tijuana, if you don't like who you are currently sitting with, just walk to the next bar and hang out with any of the hundreds of girls available that day.  Did I mention all of the 9s and 10s walking around the bar Hong King?