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Waztint
posted
8 / 49
And perhaps being BLUNT, will motivate some to test regularly. Incubation periods vary, if you contact the day after testing, and dont test for another 6 months..
.... OMG...need I say more?
As GK so aptly follows up...every 30 days at a minimum PLEASE.. ...for YOUR OWN GOOD, never mind the good of all
Waz
.... OMG...need I say more?
As GK so aptly follows up...every 30 days at a minimum PLEASE.. ...for YOUR OWN GOOD, never mind the good of all
Waz
Point two. I am annoyed by the overuse of the word "Drama" on these boards. Look up the definition. It has nothing to do with any of this or most posts on any of the boards.. My mom was dying of cancer, which I and the Dr's knew, but I could not bring myself to tell her. So I called my cousin down to talk with her about her impending doom. That's Drama. I thought it was a good discussion, some feathers get ruffled, but they grow back. The way I see it, any test interval is better than none, and there are many providers that never get tested.
-- Modified on 11/8/2013 10:29:58 PM
The way I see it, any test interval is better than none, and there are many providers that never get tested.-- Modified on 11/8/2013 10:29:58 PM
I like your style. 
Not to the posters post. Kudos for that. But for the nasty attacking and oh so high and mighty posts of some others. Since I am not part of the "in" group I will say what I think.
The thing about std testing is even if you caught something the day after you were tested and went every day, some things wont show up til 6mos later. They have instant tests but those arent as indepth as the test that takes longer to get results. Or this is how it was explained to me. I guess its kinda like being pregnant. You are pregnant but a test wont tell you are right away. Just recently I saw a tv commercial that said something like 10 days before your first missed period. But I am digressing.
I test often enough for me to feel comfortable and I have been in this biz along time and I havent had anything besides a bladder infection that may or may not have been "work" related. So what ever I am doing seems to be working for me.
And if you are being safe and using condoms and using them right, doing oral with a condom, maybe wrapping your body in plastic wrap, well with all that , you still feel the need to go get tested every other week ? What is it that you think you could catch? Oh yeah, add to the list of precautions...heavy screening and only seeing a person or two a month and yet you still feel the need to get tested that often?
Not wanting to start drama ....but I say that is bs.
And for the men that piped in... are you seeing a different girl every month ? And do you get tested every month ? Thats what I thought.
I could see getting tested that frequently if you had a lot of accidents or dont use protection, but with careful precautions every few months is good (for me, it has been) unless you have had something break or in some way have put yourself at risk. Ask your doctor, I am sure he/she will tell you what is safety cautious and what is a germaphobe , anal retentive anxiety ridden phobia
Makes you wonder why someone would choose to have a job that is sooooooo risky to them.
The thing about std testing is even if you caught something the day after you were tested and went every day, some things wont show up til 6mos later. They have instant tests but those arent as indepth as the test that takes longer to get results. Or this is how it was explained to me. I guess its kinda like being pregnant. You are pregnant but a test wont tell you are right away. Just recently I saw a tv commercial that said something like 10 days before your first missed period. But I am digressing.
I test often enough for me to feel comfortable and I have been in this biz along time and I havent had anything besides a bladder infection that may or may not have been "work" related. So what ever I am doing seems to be working for me.
And if you are being safe and using condoms and using them right, doing oral with a condom, maybe wrapping your body in plastic wrap, well with all that , you still feel the need to go get tested every other week ? What is it that you think you could catch? Oh yeah, add to the list of precautions...heavy screening and only seeing a person or two a month and yet you still feel the need to get tested that often?
Not wanting to start drama ....but I say that is bs.
And for the men that piped in... are you seeing a different girl every month ? And do you get tested every month ? Thats what I thought.
I could see getting tested that frequently if you had a lot of accidents or dont use protection, but with careful precautions every few months is good (for me, it has been) unless you have had something break or in some way have put yourself at risk. Ask your doctor, I am sure he/she will tell you what is safety cautious and what is a germaphobe , anal retentive anxiety ridden phobia
Makes you wonder why someone would choose to have a job that is sooooooo risky to them.
I wasn't aware that you needed a list of every single provider that got the hep B vaccine. So I guess since no one answered that means they didn't get a vaccine? Hmmm. I guess. I guess you can add me to your list if it's that important. If it helps, I also got a flu shot a couple days ago. Actually, you mentioned a few other Stds and asked people to comment on it. I was not aware that your question was specific to Hep B vaccine. It sounded more like a general question to me. I'm over this mess of a thread. Y'all have fun.
-- Modified on 11/8/2013 6:34:10 PM
Well, actually I was asking if everyone had the Hep B vaccine and NO ONE responded in the affirmative! That is just stupid for providers not to get that vaccine.
Point two. I am annoyed by the overuse of the word "Drama" on these boards. Look up the definition. It has nothing to do with any of this or most posts on any of the boards..
My mom was dying of cancer, which I and the Dr's knew, but I could not bring myself to tell her. So I called my cousin down to talk with her about her impending doom. That's Drama.
I thought it was a good discussion, some feathers get ruffled, but they grow back.
The way I see it, any test interval is better than none, and there are many providers that never get tested. -- Modified on 11/8/2013 10:29:58 PM
-- Modified on 11/8/2013 6:26:03 PM -- Modified on 11/8/2013 6:32:47 PM -- Modified on 11/8/2013 6:33:38 PMPoint two. I am annoyed by the overuse of the word "Drama" on these boards. Look up the definition. It has nothing to do with any of this or most posts on any of the boards..
My mom was dying of cancer, which I and the Dr's knew, but I could not bring myself to tell her. So I called my cousin down to talk with her about her impending doom. That's Drama.
I thought it was a good discussion, some feathers get ruffled, but they grow back.
The way I see it, any test interval is better than none, and there are many providers that never get tested. -- Modified on 11/8/2013 10:29:58 PM
-- Modified on 11/8/2013 6:34:10 PM
jackdawkins
posted
19 / 49
Well, actually I was asking if everyone had the Hep B vaccine and NO ONE responded in the affirmative! That is just stupid for providers not to get that vaccine.
Point two. I am annoyed by the overuse of the word "Drama" on these boards. Look up the definition. It has nothing to do with any of this or most posts on any of the boards..
My mom was dying of cancer, which I and the Dr's knew, but I could not bring myself to tell her. So I called my cousin down to talk with her about her impending doom. That's Drama.
I thought it was a good discussion, some feathers get ruffled, but they grow back.
The way I see it, any test interval is better than none, and there are many providers that never get tested. -- Modified on 11/8/2013 10:29:58 PM
Yes I have had the Hep B vaccination. I had it years ago. I think its a good idea for everyone. Hep B is much more contagious than HIV
Point two. I am annoyed by the overuse of the word "Drama" on these boards. Look up the definition. It has nothing to do with any of this or most posts on any of the boards..
My mom was dying of cancer, which I and the Dr's knew, but I could not bring myself to tell her. So I called my cousin down to talk with her about her impending doom. That's Drama.
I thought it was a good discussion, some feathers get ruffled, but they grow back.
The way I see it, any test interval is better than none, and there are many providers that never get tested. -- Modified on 11/8/2013 10:29:58 PM
Out at the Bunnyranch we are tested every 7days and have to be medically cleared before we went to work. It's kinda crazy how some people are so lax about their own sexual health. The bigger picture is that without safe practices something could be spread throughout our community. This could ruin marriages and even lives. There is still no cure for aids. Once you contract it it's a done deal. Planned parenthood is free and anonymous. Don't wait until u have symptoms to get tested. I'm afraid to say that once every 6months isn't enough if you have new partners all the time and come into contact with body fluids frequently. Just think if god forbid you caught something a month after your last test you would still potentially be spreading it around for the next 5 months before you ever knew!!!
Better safe than sorry!!!!
This stuff can potentially kill people in the long run... Let's all just have the respect for ourselves and others to keep our wonderful community safe and healthy!! You guys are all great and I'm glad this thread was started and we can have a productive informative dialog for the most part about it! Xoxo xoxo Eva bliss
Better safe than sorry!!!!
This stuff can potentially kill people in the long run... Let's all just have the respect for ourselves and others to keep our wonderful community safe and healthy!! You guys are all great and I'm glad this thread was started and we can have a productive informative dialog for the most part about it! Xoxo xoxo Eva bliss
jackdawkins
posted
23 / 49
Nobody called you a filthy tramp but your suggestion that you were called one and were bullied is (to use Patricia's word) pathetic! Here comes the bullying: stop posting on this thread. You are digging yourself a HOLE. You are showing your total lack of sexual health and education. You took sex ed in high school which based on your posted age would have been no sooner than 1983. They began teaching about HIV/AIDS in 1986. I highly doubt you continued your sexual health education since then so your information is dated! And, odd, the other person is close to your age who agreed with you... Maybe sexual health is a generational thing?
And YES my posts come from the heart! I don't want you walking around life thinking you are correct about sexual health. Also see my reply to your post below that was directly to mine for details on how very very very wrong your mindset is on STDs and your safety. If you felt bullied or bad I apologized in advance and at the end of the post but I am GLAD this is all out there. If your feelings are hurt but your knowledge of STDs and sexual health has expanded even a teenie bit then it was worth it for me and that is why I say it was sent with love and concern.
And your last sentence is confusing to me - were you the one spoken down to for being honest but that being honest doesn't always make you look pretty or is it me in those spots? I can't quite understand....
To the people eating popcorn and reading this train wreck of a blog that was MEANT to spread sexual awareness - hiiiiiiiiii
sorry you have to see me all sassy but this isn't a blog about which vets office to use it's about something that passes from person to person and because I take the risks like everyone here I try to share what I know to help myself by helping others. HUGS
Items that are sooooo wrong with this post: 1.) I dont take their liquid into me in any way. Ever hear of precum? Sometimes it's noticeable, sometimes it's just a little. You 100% take precum into your mouth whenever doing a bbbj.
"While unprotected oral sex, both mouth to penis and mouth to vagina, carry statistically lower risks of STD transmittal than unprotected vaginal or anal sex, the risk still exists, according to Stanford University's Sexual Health Peer Resource Center (SHPRC, stanfordshprc.wordpress.com/about/) and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC, www.cdc.gov).
The key to transmittal of most sexually transmitted diseases is infected body fluids. These can include semen (including pre-cum), vaginal fluid, blood and saliva, though infection from saliva itself is apparently rare. Not really surprising, that last, since saliva is designed to start breaking things down prior to digestion....
Though it is more likely to be passed via vaginal or anal intercourse, HIV can still be, and has been documented to have been, passed through oral sex only. Infected semen/pre-cum or vaginal fluid can enter the body through a cut or sore in any body parts in contact."
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=639 2.) it isnt easy getting it in your throat. "As any doctor at a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic can tell you, it is possible to acquire several forms of sexually transmitted diseases (STD) through oral sex – if the other person if infected...
In May 2011, researchers from University College London revealed that 4 per cent of London sex workers had chlamydia in their throats..."
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/infectionoralsex.htm
4% may seem like long odds but that would demonstrate it's not difficult to acquire. 3.) And to imply that I do bbbj so I must be more at risk
"Oral sex isn't safe sex: blow jobs put both the giver and the receiver at risk of numerous STDs. Fortunately for everyone who enjoys fellatio, there are ways to make the act safer. Using a condom for oral sex won't make your blowjobs less fun, but they will make them much less likely to be something you'll regret."
http://std.about.com/od/prevention/ht/safefellatio.htm
Yes, you (and I) are more at risk than doing a covered one! And as I said, I know the risks which is why I go very often for testing
Trust me, not holier than thou and if you read my post and maybe weren't so jaded into not believing providers you could understand I sent all those words before with heart not heat. This post however is in heat because I can't understand your stance and mindset so I am becoming irked... Your posts here have been VERY passive toward me and I am not taking it any more! I sincerely hope you tell us more about what your knowledge base of STD and sexual health is so I can post more articles and comments showing you are ever so wrong and uninformed. My original post was meant to inform a general audience but now I have my star pupil who has sweetly volunteered to have me demonstrate that I have a VAST knowledge of sexual education and STD awareness. HUGS to everyone! Get tested and be aware! Knowledge is power!
jackdawkins
posted
32 / 49
And my response came because of how certain people were talking to others. Not how they were talking to me. I could have stayed out of it, but like I said I dont like bullies. And no not to me. I dont let anyone bully me. But I have always stood up for others as I did here. And what I was mostly commenting on wasnt about safety it was about the condescending tone of certain people. And if you read the posts, I am not the only one that was commenting on that. Quite a few think a couple of you need to go to manners school. And I am not passive to you at all. Maybe you meant passive aggressive but no I am not that either. I am honest and in your face. And fyi, I may have been in school back then but I havent stop learning and am well educated. That is just another of your belittling ways. You dont know me or how much education I have but you make your little comments. Would you like to look at my transcripts. Cuz when I say something I actually have proof to back it up. And like I said I am safe and I didnt say stuff couldnt happen. I said I practice safety and the amount of safety I practice has been doing its job because I havent ever had any problems. And you used to talk all about how fs was blah blah blah... But now you do it. So obviously your opinion changes on a whim. Maybe next year it will change again. Like you implied I am old you are young. Well being old means I have experience and I am pretty solid in my beliefs because they dont change like they do when you are young. So teach me all you want. I value anyone who has something to say. As long as they say it with respect. And you may think I have none but what I say is public knowledge (your previous posts from massage days) where as yours, how much education I have or what I know about anything, is your presumptions. Which are wrong. and like I said , you can message me privately. This doesnt need to keep on being a chick fight. And fyi, there were a few posters on this very thread, who messaged me and they werent telling me that they disagreed with me. So again, your assumption that everyone on here has one opinion and I had the wrong one, was wrong again. SO bring it on little girl, I got tons of life I can school you in and wont put you down while I am doing it. Cuz if I , in any way ,have been disrespectful to you....its all in love, girl. I assume from the way others talk down to people that you are suppose to put that after so you dont seem like a bitch. Did it work ?
Am I a Diva because I know that you are wrong and am sharing your misinformation on an open board and doing so passionately? Ok, I can live with that. Been called worse lately, like a germaphobe.
Items that are sooooo wrong with this post:
1.) I dont take their liquid into me in any way.
Ever hear of precum? Sometimes it's noticeable, sometimes it's just a little. You 100% take precum into your mouth whenever doing a bbbj.
"While unprotected oral sex, both mouth to penis and mouth to vagina, carry statistically lower risks of STD transmittal than unprotected vaginal or anal sex, the risk still exists, according to Stanford University's Sexual Health Peer Resource Center (SHPRC, stanfordshprc.wordpress.com/about/) and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC, www.cdc.gov).
The key to transmittal of most sexually transmitted diseases is infected body fluids. These can include semen (including pre-cum), vaginal fluid, blood and saliva, though infection from saliva itself is apparently rare. Not really surprising, that last, since saliva is designed to start breaking things down prior to digestion....
Though it is more likely to be passed via vaginal or anal intercourse, HIV can still be, and has been documented to have been, passed through oral sex only. Infected semen/pre-cum or vaginal fluid can enter the body through a cut or sore in any body parts in contact."
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=639
2.) it isnt easy getting it in your throat.
"As any doctor at a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic can tell you, it is possible to acquire several forms of sexually transmitted diseases (STD) through oral sex – if the other person if infected...
In May 2011, researchers from University College London revealed that 4 per cent of London sex workers had chlamydia in their throats..."
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/infectionoralsex.htm
4% may seem like long odds but that would demonstrate it's not difficult to acquire.
3.) And to imply that I do bbbj so I must be more at risk
"Oral sex isn't safe sex: blow jobs put both the giver and the receiver at risk of numerous STDs. Fortunately for everyone who enjoys fellatio, there are ways to make the act safer. Using a condom for oral sex won't make your blowjobs less fun, but they will make them much less likely to be something you'll regret."
http://std.about.com/od/prevention/ht/safefellatio.htm
Yes, you (and I) are more at risk than doing a covered one! And as I said, I know the risks which is why I go very often for testing
Trust me, not holier than thou and if you read my post and maybe weren't so jaded into not believing providers you could understand I sent all those words before with heart not heat. This post however is in heat because I can't understand your stance and mindset so I am becoming irked... Your posts here have been VERY passive toward me and I am not taking it any more! I sincerely hope you tell us more about what your knowledge base of STD and sexual health is so I can post more articles and comments showing you are ever so wrong and uninformed. My original post was meant to inform a general audience but now I have my star pupil who has sweetly volunteered to have me demonstrate that I have a VAST knowledge of sexual education and STD awareness.
HUGS to everyone! Get tested and be aware! Knowledge is power!
Items that are sooooo wrong with this post:
1.) I dont take their liquid into me in any way.
Ever hear of precum? Sometimes it's noticeable, sometimes it's just a little. You 100% take precum into your mouth whenever doing a bbbj.
"While unprotected oral sex, both mouth to penis and mouth to vagina, carry statistically lower risks of STD transmittal than unprotected vaginal or anal sex, the risk still exists, according to Stanford University's Sexual Health Peer Resource Center (SHPRC, stanfordshprc.wordpress.com/about/) and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC, www.cdc.gov).
The key to transmittal of most sexually transmitted diseases is infected body fluids. These can include semen (including pre-cum), vaginal fluid, blood and saliva, though infection from saliva itself is apparently rare. Not really surprising, that last, since saliva is designed to start breaking things down prior to digestion....
Though it is more likely to be passed via vaginal or anal intercourse, HIV can still be, and has been documented to have been, passed through oral sex only. Infected semen/pre-cum or vaginal fluid can enter the body through a cut or sore in any body parts in contact."
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=639
2.) it isnt easy getting it in your throat.
"As any doctor at a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic can tell you, it is possible to acquire several forms of sexually transmitted diseases (STD) through oral sex – if the other person if infected...
In May 2011, researchers from University College London revealed that 4 per cent of London sex workers had chlamydia in their throats..."
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/infectionoralsex.htm
4% may seem like long odds but that would demonstrate it's not difficult to acquire.
3.) And to imply that I do bbbj so I must be more at risk
"Oral sex isn't safe sex: blow jobs put both the giver and the receiver at risk of numerous STDs. Fortunately for everyone who enjoys fellatio, there are ways to make the act safer. Using a condom for oral sex won't make your blowjobs less fun, but they will make them much less likely to be something you'll regret."
http://std.about.com/od/prevention/ht/safefellatio.htm
Yes, you (and I) are more at risk than doing a covered one! And as I said, I know the risks which is why I go very often for testing
Trust me, not holier than thou and if you read my post and maybe weren't so jaded into not believing providers you could understand I sent all those words before with heart not heat. This post however is in heat because I can't understand your stance and mindset so I am becoming irked... Your posts here have been VERY passive toward me and I am not taking it any more! I sincerely hope you tell us more about what your knowledge base of STD and sexual health is so I can post more articles and comments showing you are ever so wrong and uninformed. My original post was meant to inform a general audience but now I have my star pupil who has sweetly volunteered to have me demonstrate that I have a VAST knowledge of sexual education and STD awareness.
HUGS to everyone! Get tested and be aware! Knowledge is power!
All good questions, however, I recommend speaking with your doctor. I message my doctor on a regular basis and she's always good at getting back to me. I trust her advice over anyone that replies to this thread. She tells me the facts minus the condescending tone. Here's a link that I found helpful.
Scorpion872
posted
39 / 49
joeallen2013
posted
47 / 49