...for a date?

Well, I have a few favorites on my wish list.

1. Be clean. Or get clean. I have towels and everything needed to get fresh.

Bad (real) examples: Some clients say; I just took a shower, and when I ask when... they say yesterday...but I did not sweat much at the office

Or how about this one...I will take a shower after  

(I wonder how that would fly, if I said the same?)

A lot of people seems to think the only clean area needed is the tip of their penis. So you give them a towel and the only thing that is wet and clean is the tip of the penis. The balls is sweaty and the arm pits too. Then I do not even want to describe how the behind smells. So for those who has no clue. Use the soap in the entire area down stairs. Plus all over preferably. Especially armpits.

2. Plan your arrival time so you are not late.

Bad (real) examples:

I got people being 1h late for 30 min appointments. Then I just give up...do something else more productive...

3. Please do not cancel or change arrival time.
 
Bad (real) examples:  

I think the worse bad excuse for canceling is "my mom just died". When you know they would not text me and say that...just focus on their mom...There are as many bad excuses as bad clients it seems like. They can be very creative....

4. Stick to my rates.

Bad (real) examples:

Besides from low balling I had many different alternatives offered to me instead of my actual rate (which is not extremely high by the way).

It seems like the lower the rates my been the more odd suggestions of payments has been offered to me.

I have had people arrive with broken laptops, fake printed money, missing bills, lower amounts than agreed on. I had suggestions of trades such as car wash, real wood (not just the wood that most people have...lol), carpet cleaning, fake purses, fake sun glasses, perfume (I´m allergic), drugs (which I find no use of and never will), stolen goods, gift card etc etc

The list is endless!!

5. Minimal texting.

Bad (real) examples:

I had people probably thousands of people sexting me and just wanted to send their penis pictures and their own  sex videos. My phone has clogged up through out the years to the point where my phone freezes up and wont work due to all the pix and videos. It is amazing how much extra time people imagining we have...

6. Focus on connection and not list of services,

Connection is a wonderful thing. I want to see that we click and have a comfortable wonderful time together. So when you ask what kind of menu I have, you can expect my reply to be something like this...I am not a restaurant. But if I was then I would be a buffet!!

A Swedish Smörgåsbord!

I look forward to all the fantastic men I have met through out the years. It has been mostly good. For the rest of you take some notes from the suggestions from my wish list! I know you are capable to improve yourselves.  

xo Jessica

END OF MESSAGE

Your points are well taken.  From the flip side of the equation, just a few items to share:

If you are hosting at a hotel, please don't schedule an appointment that backs right up to your check-out time.  We know you need to vacate the room early enough to check-out and that cut into the time.

Please don't keep us waiting either.  I do my best to be punctual and adjust for driving conditions.  So when I arrive I'll let you know, don't take 15 minutes to respond with the final destination information.  

Some of you ladies are great about having towels available for us for both before and after without us asking; others not so much.  

Tidy up the place a little.  Seeing items just thrown about the place can leave an unfavorable impression right from the start.

END OF MESSAGE

the next time somebody asks me why I don't do hotel incalls.  Its interesting to me that some very clean women who maintain an immaculate residential space are complete slobs when they are hosting in a hotel room instead.  

-- Modified on 10/5/2016 10:59:18 AM

They come in faster than I have time to delete them...

What you are describing is not me. I do not host out of a hotel. I love being punctual, I am an engineer. I like things clean as well.  

I do understand that you guys have a whole list for the providers as well and I really feel for you when you tell me the bad experiences.  

Everything from not being clean to have to wait for her to get ready. Pimps hanging outside. Unsafe situations and just bad experiences.

There is a need for a  boot camp for both sides in common sense.

What I was trying to describe was that us providers gets much more exposed to these bad clients because we see men more often than you see a provider. So we get more overwhelmed much faster than you do. So because of that our tolerance level has already been over the top. So that is why you experience providers to not be very patient. That is why some of us might snap right away and you wonder...what did I do?

Does that make sense

I do not host in a hotel but if I travel, I do. The reason you might experience less clean experience in a hotel room is perhaps she was so busy that it was not easy to maintain same standard at home. The girls who travel gets usually much busier than at home.  

Plus she can not ask for more towels than reasonable since you will attract attention to what is going on in your room. You want to keep a low profile. Then you usually do not have cleaning material w you to a hotel as you would at home...

Makes sense?

I'm glad I have an assistant so I don't have to deal with some of these

My comments weren't directed at any particular lady.  Just general observations.  I certainly am aware that many ladies host out of their own private locations.  Some local ladies will use a hotel.  Touring ladies it's a given where they are staying.  

It's a given that you ladies see many individuals compared to us.  Thus you experience the worst more often.  Keep in mind that many of us are selective about whom we wish to see. We look for an experience rather than an encounter.

shower there and not before they leave home.  So what is the likelihood when a girl is "busier" on the road working out of a hotel room, where she doesn't want to draw attention to herself by asking for an adequate supply of extra clean towels,  that he will be given a towel already used by another customer?  Yet another reason not to go to a hotel incall, IMO.  I have no desire to dry my face on a towel that someone else has already dried their butt-crack with, but that's just me.  Maybe others aren't so particular.

My experience is that a short car ride can make anyone smell depending on how hot it is. So I personally prefer to have people shower at my place. I have my own laundry room. So laundry is not a problem for me when I am home.

When I travel I usually have to sneak up to the supply cart or the supply room and get more towels on my own. I do not want to ask for extra. But in my case I would NEVER have a client use a towel that has already been used. I could not speak for how the other providers handle things to solve the towel problem

Thanks for understanding. You seem to be a nice man with consideration about others.

Thanks for liking the post. I had a secretary from time to time but they could not handle the guys more than a few months. They drove them to the edge due to all the stress and odd requests. It was very time consuming and demanding.

I solved it by not answering the calls anymore. I usually have my phone on silent. It gives me a lot of peace of mind. My life is more peaceful now

I've been doing this for a while, Probably a couple hundred visits to hotels. Both 4 star and shit show... and have NEVER been handed a used towel. That would be the end of that date. Most rooms come pretty well stocked with towels anyways. And If a lady is seeing so many clients in a short time that she runs out... It won't be the demand for extra towels that raises suspicion. It will be the steady flow of foot traffic to her room.

I totally agree with you.  

That's why I would never host at a hotel.

My place is where I live and I keep it clean always.

My place is private and I always have clean towels and a shower available.

I am super clean always, freshly showered and will never make you wait for your appointment. I never schedule back to back appointments. That's just plainly rude and very unprofessional and totally unsanitary.  

Some girls are only here for the money but some of us truly enjoy what we are doing and it shows in all of our reviews.

I look exactly like my pictures. None of my reviews are fake. I love what I can do and I am proud to leave you totally relaxed, refreshed, exhausted lol, and looking ahead for the next time we can enjoy each others company.

Always yours respectfully,

Roxy not Roxanne


-- Modified on 10/6/2016 1:59:05 AM

END OF MESSAGE

In all the years of doing this, I've rarely had a problem doing hotel incall, matter of fact I'm doing  one later today.  

I was only that busy in Chicago and at big hotels they won´t notice as much. I do not really travel anymore because I just like to see my regulars and a few new ones. I do not really like to get that busy anymore. I have more obligations in San Diego to take care of like pets and my rental properties so it is nicer to stay home. Peace and quite.

We are all playing in the same world.  Makes no sense to me not to be cognizant of the total picture.

It wasn't directed at any lady in particular.  Just general observations.  The point was to share perspectives from this side of the equation.

Please, trim nails short. Long or sharp nails do not feel good in certain places, if you know what I mean