Hey guys. I'm brand spankin new to this hobby. Hell, I didn't even know it was a hobby until I started getting into TER. I had three crazy experiences, so I'll just tell ya'll what's been goin on and hopefully get some feedback on one or all three experiences! I don't know if I've taken three for the team, or taken in the ass three times by cruel fate. But there's one good aspect, and that's at the end!

First I saw Sara, at http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=106188 . For some reason the review posted as a 7 for looks. I emailed TER to change that to a 9. The chick was so hot, and her perfume reminded me of someone, and the who newness to the hobby and the fact that she wouldn't kiss just made me all uptight. Felt WAY different than my other non-pro experiences. Sigh, I guess I'm not the most confident lover around. Anyway, she took the money and left. I guess she was entitled-it was her time I was paying for.

The second I saw Laylah, who just got back into the biz. http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=78976 I want to be respectful and not be snarky, but I tell ya, she was using old pics. Gained 10-20 pounds since she left the biz. I TOFTT there I suppose. I'll post a review of that sometime soon. I could get it up, but that was a chore because I'm just not attracted to chicks like her - 20" rims on her phat ride, way overweight for my liking, etc. She was gracious and we had a good time chatting, cause there was some extra time, so let me be clear. However, one caveat: she wouldn't allow digital penetration, and I was like "okayyy...." I'd never even consdered that a chick who would do you wouldn't allow you to put your finger up her. She also said she would kiss on teh phone but definitely not DFK... I get better kisses from my grandma.

Last, and worst, I met with Becky. Real cute, but I seriously haven't even recovererd yet. Her number is 461-5002. She was real open as far as people go. But it confused me. She rushed me up to my room, saying "I'm not gonna make any money if we don't get to it." Her deal was that she says she's from an escort agency, and that there is no such thing as an independent escort because San Diego regulates them. She says she's got all kinds of advertising fees and agency fees or whatever, and that she works for tips. Followed quickly by "so what do you want to do!?"  I am green, but I didn't think that any of this was legit. I mean, I already donated when she walked in the door, and then I'm supposed to donate 75-100% more for tips?  AND she doesn't go all the way. I was just like "I can't afford this for something that doesn't even please me." It seemed to me like an upsell scam. Am I just totally ignorant, or aren't there women out there who don't do it like this??  
As I said, I contacted Hillary Cavanaugh, so we'll see how that goes.
I know one mistake I made is that I am not a VIP on TER so I am not playing with a full deck. I'll start paying. And I think Becky wasn't even listed on TER. My bad.

The good thing is that I just frickin called Jamie I believe her name is, and she spoke with me for like ten minutes. Real cool. That's the kind of person who makes you feel good: straight info for free, just man to man. Or woman to man. I dunno

Well if anyone wants to take me under their wing, that'd be great. I just gave Hillary Cavanaugh a call. I HATE this habit of not showing faces, but... If so, post. Something tells me I'm gonna be a lifelong hobbyist if I can get my shit straight, so I'll pay it forward if you give me the rundown. You can imagine my frustration!