This board has been quiet, so thought I would throw something out there to get some conversation going...

I recently read a review talking about a provider bringing her apprentice on the date.  Not only was the whole idea of this teacher/student instruction/demonstration/feedback really hot (e.g. "now suck his throbbing cock just the way I did...pretend his cock is coated with a thin layer of water and you are desert thirsty trying to lick every last ounce from it...now look at him...stare into his eyes as you cherish his cock with your mouth... let him know with your eyes it is not just cock that you love and worship...but HIS cock."  Anyway, I may be getting carried away here, but hopefully you get the idea

But here are some questions for providers:

1. How did you learn the craft?  Did you have a mentor?  Are there any particular porn sites that you found very good with instruction or learning?

2. For the more experienced providers, have you ever had a protege/apprentice?  Was it a friend?  Did someone contact you out of the blue?  Would you be willing to have an apprentice to teach the trade?  Have you ever brought an apprentice on a date for "hands-on" instruction?

I do think most guys would love to be a part of this process and would appreciate that new girls to the hobby are trying to hone their craft before going off on their own.  Anyway, I thought this was a really hot idea and wanted to get providers' thoughts.

My ATF book is "How to tickle his pickle!"


Life is our greatest teacher, and there is no substitute for experience.

1) I chose to enter this hobby purely by my own will and choice. I began working for an agency (which was a sinking ship). The "boss" had a relationship that was ruining his business, I had met another provider whom was working for him as well. She began taking me under her wing and teaching me the ropes - at least her way of doing it... Unfortunately, she left me stranded while visiting my Dad; promising she would re-pay me the money she had borrowed. I was broke, freaking out, and hurt thousands of miles from my home... At the time I wasn't honest with my family about who I am to the very core. (Now my Dad, Mom, Siblings, and Grandparents alike laugh with me at my crazy wild adventures in Strip Clubs and AVN events - my family is super awesome and I love them for loving me unconditionally)!!!

1a) Chloe Wilde is my saving grace, best friend, mentor, and ultimate role model. She re-trained me in  the ways of a true hetaera, and washed away the hate the un-named woman above inflicted. Chloe blindly purchased me a plane ticket to fly across the country and into her heart. The next day I was in her home and off for an over night double which had saved me financially and mentally; I paid her in cash for the ticket within 48 hours of calling her for help and never looked back. She showed me it IS possible to have a best friend provider who cares about my well being. And it is possible to choose this lifestyle from a place of goodness and veracity.

2) After years in this industry, and much personal growth, my new mantra is to "be the change I want to see in this industry". I have yet to take a fledgling under mine own wings, but I am open to it.

I LOVE being a Courtesan and I could jump for joy at how blessed I am... Thanks to everyone in the hobby for keeping my life fun, loving, and free spirited!

XOXOXO

I began in the industry as a dancer.  I was always independent until I began branching out into other fields like live shows where we had a schedule and were monitored. The shows were a perfect platform to perfect dirty talk and visual appeal such as toys, positions, body talents/functions like gagging, watersports and most importantly preparing me to watch a perfect stranger pleasure themselves for me.

After a stint doing both dancing and shows I discovered a sensual massage group and learned erotic massage. I basically knew everything prior to meeting the "madame" but my rhythm and timing were tuned to a set structure to ensure she could book me a max of 5 clients per day when possible. I never liked that as I would always be exhausted when I got home. When things went sour between that group and another due to legal shenanigans I went independent and never looked back.

My past experiences prior to my adult lifestyle taught me the art of touch and confidence of skill.
My personal preferences and kinks geared me toward openness to this and other avenues of play.
Several years of sensual massage and several relationships (good and bad) resulted in the transformation into the provider you know and lust for today.

Since being independent I have helped several providers including my former "madame" even! It began with gaining the use of a location in north county which I spruced up to the best of my ability while not living there. Once the location was clean, stocked and user friendly I began seeing clients solo again advertising myself for sensual massage. My former madame began also occasionally using the northern location to help accommodate her clients in the area. It's always nice being able to trust someone in your space and have someone to help and be helped by in return!

My first protege was Jean Merlot: a skilled provider looking to limit her menu to FBSM. We got her a table and I trained her the basic rhythm and moves through doing the bodywork on her followed by a handful of doubles. She is now successful and fully independent! I trained another girlfriend in full GFE dating but sadly substances clouded her ability to be reliable thus I was forced to sever ties but left the door open for a return if she should choose a different path. I am always looking to help other ladies get a foot in the door or even assist in booking/advertising. I love this industry and there is new business daily! Plenty for all!



My skills are all my own but TER and the online spectrum of marketing were introduced through my former "agency" (though we were more of a massage parlor). For that I am thankful!

What a direct, honest, and positive post, from a beautiful girl with the same qualities.  I met Roxanne last weekend, sight unseen, after we had corresponded regarding a post I'd made on the LA discussion board.  We spent a wonderful afternoon in Balboa Park, attending a matinee at the Old Globe, and then retired to her incall close by for a blissful rendezvous.  Wow!  What a delightful young woman!  She is a true sexual healer and totally positive and enthusiastic about her life as a courtesan.  I feel honored to have met her, and I hope she continues to be a supportive influence to other providers and clients

A great read, but an absoultely incredible girl.

Goldie Loves the hobby - no surprise   Guess what - The hobby loves Goldie
The number of our visits are limited, because I live accross the country, but there is no limit to incredible feeling you get being with Goldie.  The time and anticipation between visits only makes it better.  

Thanks for the great post Sweetheart

Thank you for your kind words. The love I share with each and everyone in this community is unconditional, genuine, and much appreciated. The sheer joy I receive from every exchanged note, glance, touch, and kiss alike is unlike anything I could've ever asked for. Words can never express the grattitude I have for you all.

Humbly Yours,
Roxanne

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There is much love in my heart for you sweet sister
You have grown so much since that day we met in Boston ...
I am so blessed to be given you as a gift.
I will always strive to be mentor, lover and friend to you!
We are a dynamic duo and look out world we are on the prowl!!
Kissez until you faint,
Chloe

Enjoyed reading through your story, Goldie -- I'm a long-time fan of yours who goes back to that condo off Gilman Drive and who has seen you several times at your PB love nest. It's been a real pleasure (in more ways than one) watching you mature as a provider and as a person. You really are special -- one of a kind -- and a rarity in the industry. And though we've had a lot of fun, I know that the best is yet to come.