Hi Gents,
I have a somewhat sensitive question to ask.  You show up for an appt., an hour perhpas more. And the young lady notices you may have a little aroma going on. Not horrible, but not inviting.
Should she pretend not to notice and get through the hour?
Perhaps cut into a few minutes of playitme and ask you to take a quick rinse off?
And if she did would you be offended?
Can't wait to hear this...
J'L.



-- Modified on 1/22/2007 5:26:48 PM

Yuck -- you ought invite the stinky f-er to take a shower, politely, of course, and if he doesn't get the hint, insist.

I think, if it's really going to be an issue for you and it's going to interfere with your enjoyment of the experience, you should try to, politely, ask him to take a quick shower. Personally, I would find being asked very embarrassing, but I would understand it.
Just my 0.02 cents, Jai.

Frankly, I would rather start a session with a shower.  Just as I would appreciate someone who is clean and freshly showered, I assume the provider would want the same thing.  It is not that tuff.  It is a matter of courtesy.  If you offered someone a shower, and you don't have to be a part of it, I would be shocked if you were turned down.  Then, once the stinky f-er has showered, I am sure you could make him forget any lingering embarassment.

The tougher question is do you call a time out when you are dining at the y and you taste something fishy or tastes like a latex baloon????

I usually take a shower before we get started anyway. After all it is the polite thing to do.

Ask him to take a shower - besides the fact that it makes everything more comfortable, it is the right thing to do. This is a real no brainer and something that should be done out of respect for the provider.

Although I can happily say I haven't come acorss either and fishy would scare me.

-- Modified on 1/23/2007 8:48:54 AM

A shower should be mandatory! I don’t care if the guy took a shower 20min. prior to your meeting. Without getting into details, if this guy put his pants on and drove to see you…..he’s got to get cleaned up before contact. I once asked a provider to clean up before we got started and she had absolutely no problem with it. There is no gray area on this one, when a guy shows up direct him to the bathroom with a clean set of towels. And if a provider is invited to your place, when she arrives do the same.

Hmmm...Well you could tell him that, from time to time, you get an uncontrollable urge to get all lathered up yourself and suggest that you BOTH jump in the shower!

I am always willing to take a shower before and after.  If you drive for an hour even if you took one before there is no harm.  Just don't say you smell terrible please take a shower.  You should suggest a shower, maybe even join them

I always shower when I get there.  This way I am clean and the girl knows it.  I will do this even if I have just taken a shower at home.

So far it's never happened. But showers for 2 get things going. whatever pleases you, will please me. On the other side, I love to relax with the aroma of a lady that enjoyed our adventures together.