Ok folks. i've had several bad experiences - bait/switch so i stopped my hobbying efforts.  However, i'm now back in San Diego this monday and want to get your help.  

I don't trust eros, cityvibe and even TER has some questionable postings.

I'm thinking of alicia allure or Tiemmy.  both seem pretty darn good for overall.  
my question.
1) is there any preference of one or the other (i'm only there for 1 night)
2) is there anyone better?

i thank you in advance because the discussion boards seems to be the true value of TER.