I was just wondering if anybody can recommend a good provider to see that doesn't mind if it is your first time.  Someone who doesn't mind if you're nervous or shy or anything like that.  I've basically been fairly uncomfortable around women until I get to know them, then I'm a lot more open.  I have been reading a lot of the reviews here and they all seem really informative, but none of them (at least the ones I have read) seem to offer any details on a provider's demeanor to first-timers.  I would imagine that some wouldn't want to waste their time with newbies.  So, for lack of a better term, I'm looking for a good "teacher".  Any comments or recommendations?

I think that most providers would make you feel comfortable
within minutes of arriving.  We are used to taking the
lead and know how to put a person at ease.  
I think it is normal to have a little bit of nervousness
or that feeling of excitement when you meet someone new.
To me, it is part of the fun.
Unfortunately, since it is your first time, you wouldn't
be able to give the provider reference that I require for
my first time clients.  But I am sure that if you do your
homework, you should be able to find someone who will
be happy to see you, provided that you are able to
fulfill her screening procedures.
Good luck to you.  Relax and enjoy the ride.

Although I am a relative newbie in relation to some of the more established hobbyists here, I think I can offer a few suggestions since I was in your position at one time. First, there is an undercurrent of paranoia due to LE possibly lurking on the boards. (Donuts, anyone??) That is one of the reasons why people are reluctant to provide specific names. Moreover, if you do not have any reviews to your credit, people are even more reluctant to share information. I know it is a "Catch-22" situation, but people will trust those who are already established. It is only human nature. Second, you can easily do a search, if you are a VIP member, to find out the information you are seeking. Most providers who have a number of reviews are the ones who have experience with newer hobbyists. If you are not a VIP member, then please become one. Consider it as an excellent investment in your hobby. Good luck hunting!!

with a alias like that you are sure to get some flak and not pass the smell test or the sprinkle test.  just enjoy this adult fantasy world here and take it for what it is worth to ya....  have fun and be safe and enjoy that fantasies you will find here..

If you would like to PM me on this site, I'm sure I can help you with the lack of references issue.  Not sure if you're able use this site to PM or if you have an email address where I can contact you.  If not, let me know on the board.
XXXOOO

LOL  You're right, I shouldn't have chosen that name.  I had just gotten done with the last hour of 24 and was jazzed by what's coming up next that all I could think about was the show.  And since KateWarner wouldn't really be appropriate, well.  Jack isn't appropriate either.  My bad.