A word to the wise:  on Monday through texting I arranged with Mickey Monroe to meet me at my home at 1 o'clock Tuesday.  She chose 1:00 writing me that she was incentivized to make sure I had "the best experience you've ever had with a provider and that's a promise heh "  She wrote that she would "love to come and see you at your place".  

I was looking forward to an ongoing arrangement with a worthwhile woman, as it's an ideal location for me. And, others have said, for the right woman.

At about 11 on Tuesday I texted her with the question "1:00 is still good for us?"  No response.  Nonetheless, as phone failure and/or other activity is always a possibility, I continued with my plans to be showered and present despite having an otherwise busy day.  She did not follow through on her agreement and I wasted a couple good hours until I accepted that this is who she is today.

Rude, inconsiderate, and deceptive behaviors are quite unnecessary in our world. I regret reporting that Mickey Monroe apparently thinks otherwise.  All it takes is consideration of the other person's time with a call or text indicating a change of mind, a time conflict, or an adjustment.  Without that consideration, both providers and clients should be avoided.

With the information given, I think you're jumping to conclusions. By your own admission you contacted her once to see what was going on, and apparently not at-all after that. Instead of letting her explain what was going on, you come here and complain. That gives me the impression that you're pissed everything didn't go exactly how you wanted it to.

 
 I don't think her not showing for a single appointment is good cause to call her rude, inconsiderate, or deceptive especially when she has a good review track record that says otherwise. Other gents I've spoken with about her had nothing but good things to say about her. She's been on my todo list for awhile now.  

 

For all you know she has a good reason for not showing, and for all anyone knows, that reason is you.

@Samahdi,

To quote you Sir:

"Rude, inconsiderate, and deceptive behaviors are quite unnecessary in our world.  
I regret reporting that Mickey Monroe apparently thinks otherwise.  
All it takes is consideration of the other person's time with a call or text indicating a  
change of mind, a time conflict, or an adjustment.  
Without that consideration, both providers and clients should be avoided."

@Samahdi,
I'm sorry this happened to you, and I'm in agreement with you 100%.
Tuesday no-show/cancellations must have been contagious, because I too had almost
a similar scenario occur on that day.

After a solid week of back-n-forth emailing, to verify references, and  
establish a date, this Gent and I scheduled for Tuesday,  1pm.

My  protocol is to confirm the night prior, then 2-3 hours prior, as a final confirm.
I did both, and all systems were a "go".
One hour prior I get a "oh sorry I can't make it".    
{at least he did cancel instead of the per-usual "nsnc"  "no-show, no-call" as some do}
I understand "ish happens".

Missed time is money, in more ways than one, in my personal case.    
It's not just a huge block of time set aside for the meeting, however, it is the prep-time prior, and  
having to pass on the desire of  regular visitors, who want to see me.  It's a double whammy!
This tends to occur at least once monthly or more possibly to us all, unfortunately.

Assuming it was clear to both parties that there was an appointment scheduled at a certain date and time, each party has an obligation to either keep the appointment or formally cancel. In the case of emergencies at least an apology after the fact is warranted.

 
I don't know any facts that were not presented here, but it appears Ms. Monroe violated this trust. The OP has a long review history so I deem his claim to be credible albeit a little rambling). I'm guessing since this happened two days ago, he was waiting for her to offer an explanation and none came. That said, she has a look and menu that will make many a hobbyist disregard a transgression or two.

At least once, I'd think that's the correct policy.

 
That said, there's more to this story than he's letting on.

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They seem to get it right and in so many ways.

I get it, this isn't you first rodeo.....
1 - most of these ladies have other lives.    
2 - things happen in life and we are not thier priorith.
3 - most could care less about your feelings.
4 - fight club rule 1, never take it personal.

 
Bro, I extrememly sympathize with you but let it go, does nothing but piss you off and cause stress.
The issue ladies do not understand is the physiological changes in mankind when we make a date...our T increases, our heartbeat increase, cholesterol increase, blood vessel constrict, blood pressure increases....we are a fuckn heart attack till we cum. If you cancel or flake we are ready to explode.....

This has happened to me too , over the years.  Not with this provider. It usually happens, ebvery thing is proceeding smoothly, you are in contact with the provider, you drive to their location for an Incall, in  traffic , most of the time and when you get there  and call, no response and radio silence after that even when you text or email for an explanation.
TER does not allow you to post  reviews on incident like this, if the session did not happen.  So there are no statistics on who does what to whom.
I have learnt to deal with this in a non emotional way now.  When such thing happens, I strike that provider off my list and would never attempt to see them ever again.  That seem to work for me.  I have like 3 or 4 over several years, on my "NO show list".  I don't make any big deal about it, but they will never get my business ever again  and I am a generous client. So it is their loss.

Her evaporation didn't upset me.  Few things do.  It simply inconvenienced me and I thought it would be helpful to TER viewers to factor her possible evaporation into plans they may consider. It's not a big thing, just an element in the decision-making process, that's all.  

It's remarkable to me that simply writing about an event imbues it with emotion.  No emotion invested here.

Thank you for your concern, regardless.

I don't think it's healthy for the community to lie about someone.  

 

Additionally, you clearly have emotion and ego tied up in this. You wouldn't stoop to name calling if that wasn't the case.

Haha, you are right.  My thinking was that home delivery would save me some time in a busy week.  I'm always well-served by the Asiancy and truly appreciate it.  

Us...provider can use this board and report all of our no show no call?  
Jesus chris it would an overload.

I've had countless situations...
It's frustrating yes
Is it a BIG deal? No  
It's always more providers/hobbyist to choose from.

"Our" world is a lil jungle and you have to weed trough.

share the names of NCNS hobbyists on the PO board.