Cigarette smoke is gross.

I don't share your concerns, but I agree, it's disgusting.

clothes in the car.  Or, get a divorce, whichever is cheaper.

thank me for my first suggestion, so I will try another one:

Move upmarket a little bit where they host in a hotel instead of a motel, or else go to an Asian incall.  Most providers will not smoke in a regular hotel because the hotel will hit their credit card for an extra $2-500 if they smoke in the room.  Maybe you like this suggestion better than leaving your clothes in the car?

I hate cigarette smoke but I don't mind the lingering smoke in a room so much. I have enough friends that smoke that explaining smoke on my clothes is not a problem. What I really dislike is kissing a woman that has recently smoked and not washed her mouth out. Yuk. Real turn off and makes it easy to never repeat.

stop for gas on your way home and "accidentally" spill some on yourself. this trick works to cover perfume smells too

i haven't smoked in 28 days and i feel so good with out them

I can't stand the smell, so it's something I consider when researching providers...definitely a negative for me. It's like the bar here a few years back - I'm happy that most states don't allow that anymore.