I'm having a bit of an issue with a provider that I'm not sure how to handle. She does FBSM exclusively. I met her a while back on SDbackpage and I was the one who sent her to one of these sites. I kind schooled her a little and I was kinda happy that she was able to make a nice living after being fired, divorced and losing her home in the same year. Thing is that we did more than FBSM when we first met and she didn't want to go full throttle and was happy when she found out there was a market for an attractive unlicensed masseuse. I have always been a gentleman and although I consider her a friend I always, always paid. But the last two times I have seen her, have been at her place, and she refused to take my money. When she texted me to come over I was busy and simply said I was low on funds. She said she wanted some company only. Being as how she has always been kind to me I agreed to come over. I did not expect for what happened to happen. We were intimate and It was really freaking weird because it wasn't a client/provider get together. The last time was even weirder because it was like 2 in the morning and she wanted me to spend the night. I do not know how to handle this at all. I like her and she's obviously an attractive woman but it seems to me like she is very lonely. She not on this site, almost exclusively on the other two. Any suggestions? advice?
Just talk to her about it since you consider her a friend. Ask her what her intentions are and be honest about what yours are. I said this before, women are women and still want to be treated as a woman, which it sounds like you do. She could genuinely like you, which is what it sounds like to me.
You definitely need to talk. Everything needs to be discussed. Does she want a relationship? do you want a relationship? TER has loads of threads concerning this topic. You might want to search on the Erotic Highway board. While the LG is long gone, if you do a search of 360 days you can probably find threads of interest.
all of the above good advice. Things can get very complicated. The provider/hobbiest relationship should be honored--togo toanother level can be tricky emotionally and financially.--bottom line--communication is the key.
Posted By: hiddenhills
You definitely need to talk. Everything needs to be discussed. Does she want a relationship? do you want a relationship? TER has loads of threads concerning this topic. You might want to search on the Erotic Highway board. While the LG is long gone, if you do a search of 360 days you can probably find threads of interest.
Be careful, especially if you are already involved with someone else and have a wife or SO already... It seems like she wants to be in a relationship, and you may not be doing it intentionally, but you could be leading her on and making her believe you want a relationship too. Save yourself the drama, heartache and headache by being open and asking her what is going on between the two of you. If you don't want to commit to anything right now, be very clear with her.
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