I read all your postings regarding the risks of screening. Obviously, many of the folks on this board, male and female, do not have a good command of the obvious!
Let me then remind you:
1] If the family become aware of activities such as this, if it is a decent family, it will be utterly embarrasing, and it may take a lifetime to recover
2] If you do have a respetable career, doctor, lawyer, business executive, and somehow this information leaks out, your career will be highly damaged
I think I have given enough examples. Exposing your identity in an uncertain situation, elevates the chances of your secrets becoming public.
About the ladies, don't fool yourself. Your email, telephone, and computer can be monitored, with or without Patriot Act.
Well, other than that you point out that lady's phone, email and computer being monitored.
How else would YOU even make first contact a lady that advertises on the net?
If you're that worried about risking your important position or your family, I'd suggest you cut out the truly "risky" behavior and stay home. That's really the obvious answer for you.
The reason I brought up monitoring the phone, was in the context of if LE is bent on finding something. Please note, someone like you who is well reviewed, when contacted by a hobbyist, from our end, there is no anxiety about LE.
But, when you need to know all of my coordinates, then the anxiety comes about ...
My point was by screening, a few customers are lost, and no tangible security is achieved. From the client side, one being put in a position of taking additional risks.
All of the above, are business decisions, and risk managements. We all reach different conculsions. We don't live in the world of Spinoza, the world of supreme rationality ...
If I ever want to submit to screening, you will be the one and only. You are beautiful, truly elegant, write so well, but I will never get to see you, and be with you! It hurts!
This is the precise reason why I'm out of "the practice" or "the hobby" or whatever you may call it. People are searching for something. That's why they look around, to see what's out there. Unfortunately you can't confuse prostitutes with lovers, so when you realize that what you are looking for is love, not sex, and when you find it you know what you are supposed to do about it. Face it folks, the guys going to providers are not currently in love with anyone. Of that I am quite sure. So about screening - while I was unhappy I would routinely hang up on or not return email to someone who asked too much. But that's just me.
Since, neither conditon 1 nor 2 apply in my case, or those in the same boat as I. (i.e. Single, Blue Collar types) So I suppose my only concern Socially is LE... Which is a concern to anyone in the hobby, Screened or Otherwise.
I guess in the end, its choice. Hobbyists may supply their information or not, just as Providers may choose to meet or cancel based on our (or lack of) responses.
Beings that I am without 'decent' family (apperently, by some definition of 'decent') or a 'respectable' career... It would seem I have little to loose.
The creening process has to be a happy medium. I think Curious is right re: the "outing" of a hobbyist in certain facets of life.
But, the providers need to be 'safe' too. Afterall, we are screening them here.
12-23 pages of reviews for a little more detailed screener indicates that the info. is safe. I have sat with providers while I watched them obliterate all evidence of me after the intial meeting. They should be more than ready to do this upon request.
compromise. compromise. compromise. Or take a risk with a "loose" provider, i.e. no screen, etc. and often the same that do not practice safe sex ALL the time (another topic).
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