I was wondering if any provider would be open to that.... I would just watch...

Too funny, this is a common theme.
Write me a private note. I can fill you in, without an alias.

Just go to Thad's any Friday or Saturday night.  You can see as much of that kind of action as you want.

Apparently so.

Yes, Thad's is still open. About two mths ago, a guy friend of mind didn't want to go by himself so I tagged along and hung out. I had fun watching people but my friend ended up going home disappointed.