hey  so ive been gone a while ..what the good safe websites for meeting a new provider?  with the right menu

No site is 100% safe & that is a fact.

Many girls with ads on other sites have reviews here... so if you see someone you are interested in, do your research (look up their name, phone number, email address etc) and see what feedback you find.  As Ms. Patricia said, no one site is safe, you need to take precautions no matter which site you choose to go with... if you choose not to do your homework, then you are stuck with the consequences.