Any advice on how to get my money back once I handed over to the girl?

Try asking her for it. If she says no then you can always try taking it by force, to which she will reply by yelling  RAPE!. Either way, you're screwed mate. Once you hand your money over,consider it gone.

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Sure.  There's lenty of LE around here...just let 'em know you got ripped off!

C'mon everybody - be nice.  Why don't you just ask her for the $$$ back.  I'm sure she would be happy to give it back.  Where did all the smart people in SD go?

i thought some of you had come up with the arts of combating rip-off. i guess not. i shouldn't have asked. i apologize for asking. this board is full of sarcastic, low class and selfish people who are probably high school drop-outs just like visitorsfriend.

Sorry, my friend. They don't mean to be rude but it is difficult, if not impossible to provide you with advice with LE lurking around here. The only suggestion I would offer is to do your research first and you will avoid situations like you have experienced. It helps to use the big head instead of the little one, too. I do wish you better luck than you seem to have had in the past.

We have developed a defense for it. It's called doing your homework. I've been around this activity for longer than I care to say, and do you know how many times I've been ripped off? NONE! it's never happened. How did I accomplish this you might ask? Well, my fifth grade education gave me the wisdom not to run blindly into a situation where the potential to be ripped off exists. A picture of a pretty girl doesn’t turn off my undereducated brain. If I had been ripped off once, I certainly wouldn’t go back for a second helping or ask for methods on how to get my money back when it happens for the third time. Some of us learn from our own and others mistakes. You don’t even have an excuse. There was plenty of reason not to see the two girls you reviewed, the warnings were there but you ignored them. Why? Maybe you’re not as smart as you think and could learn a thing or two from us cretinous lowbrows.

youre so perfect your highness. youre free of blemishes and mistakes. youre so smart. youre the smartest person in here. i am not as smart as you are my majesty. i wanna be just like you when i grow up. i am not worthy i am not worthy. as far as for me, i made mistakes. i got trapped. these ripoff artists were good. at least i am honest not stuckup like you. one word for you: humility.

one more thing... see this girl candy http://www.sdadultdirectory.com/categories/body/2879/entertainer.html. before the third review, she got 2 8's. now tell me how i am suppose to know shes a ripoff artist? i need your input your highness

Ok, you got taken (twice), but there were signs in each of your endeavers that you should have paid attention to. Your first anti-GFE (not Candy) is a mystery as to why you would call in the first place. The girl has mostly 3, 4, & 5's for performance, with a couple of higher scores that probably should have been disregarded. You end up getting a clothed HJ from an impersonal girl while being worked for more $$. Duh, she performed right up to expectations for having previous scores that low. Steeerike one!

Next you see Candy, who had only two reviews from guys who had zero experiences in SD. Can you say "low credibility"? Add to the fact that the add is an enticement for something that sure looks to be too good to be true, you should have at least waited for someone else with more credibility before you took your second leap. Steeerike two!

And now you get pummeled a bit for asking the obvious, and then throw your tantrum by ranting against one of the more seasoned participants on this board. STEEEEEERIKE THREE!

Time to go back down to AAA to lick your wounds, then maybe see a well reviewed provider or two so as not to go for the threepeat.

ccybersurfer if you'd spend some time reading these boards before you hand over the equivalent of a car payment, you'd notice that there are some excellent suggestions, witty sides, and noteworthy warnings.

Calling out naughty is about the biggest fumble you can make here.  He doesn't dish out anything but the truth as he sees it~~ if you can't take his style, pack up your keyboard tuck your tail between your legs and find another discussion board.  His words of wisdom, along with the other long term posters are well worth the read.

NOW, spend that time reading back at least 90 days, 180 days or longer of a search on any lady that you plan on seeing.  If you're a newbie, don't go with a lady that has less than 10 solid reviews from SAN DIEGO reviewers, better to go with 20 reviews, even more.

Besides doing a search on the LADY's name, do some discussion searches on the REVIEWER's NAMES.  You can do this by doing a FIND MESSAGE icon hit on the lower left hand on your screen.  Go back 300 days instead of the 30 that's automatically entered into the search field.

Also, go to the New York board and do a discussion board search on the reviewer named Fortitude.  He is known for doing very thorough searches and helping to school newbies like you. Don't go asking questions, just read what's already written.

ATTITUDE WILL GET YOU ZILCH anywhere on discussion boards or chats really anywhere on the net (mensa, Stearman Restorer's, Bantee Chicken Raisers, or Recipe Boards all have posters much the same as here at TER.)  We'll eat you alive or ignore your sorry butt, assuming you're a BAD GUY or a zitty 13 year old with no parental monitoring.

You asked a silly question and you got the answers you deserved.  Think before posting, think before throwing down your hard earned cash.  Most of the more reputable ladies don't want to see anything other than an envelope  discretely placed, MANY don't want your gift until the end of the date.

Best wishes!

Elise [email protected]  (no, I'm not an active provider)